People Who Try to Provoke You
By kay lar
@jaylar (371)
Kingston, Jamaica
August 10, 2024 4:16pm CST
In life, if you look back, you'll see how many people said or did something to provoke a response.
Abusive husbands have this as a science. They get the wife to react, then respond to her with violence. Their justification is that she provoked him. He leaves out his actions which set the stage. The wife is to feel that 'she caused it.'
When Bosses want to fire you they'll often say something so you respond and can be labeled 'insubordinate' and terminated.
Online, it is the same thing.
You have to realize this.
Don't respond.
.
The man across the road parked to block access. He expected a response so he can make a scene.
I realized it instantly and having another route, took it. Subsequently I thanked him for making me go in the other direction. He never parked there again.
It that wasn't evidence of his attempt to get a rise out of me, I don't know what is.
6 people like this
8 responses
@Deepizzaguy (100079)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
10 Aug
It is the best advice I have ever received to not respond to comments I make on social media that in my view are not harmful.
2 people like this
@Deepizzaguy (100079)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
11 Aug
@jaylar That is true since a bully get neutralized when the offended party does not answer them.
1 person likes this
@jaylar (371)
• Kingston, Jamaica
11 Aug
@Deepizzaguy exactly... bully goes out of their way to offend another who isn't... failure!
2 people like this
@LovingMyBabies (85291)
• Valdosta, Georgia
10 Aug
I absolutely agree, the abuser of any kind is LOOKING for a reaction! They don't like when they don't get it. 
1 person likes this
@LovingMyBabies (85291)
• Valdosta, Georgia
10 Aug
@jaylar I'm married to a narcissist so I know all about the reactions some want.
1 person likes this
@jaylar (371)
• Kingston, Jamaica
10 Aug
@LovingMyBabies now that you know the 'secret information' you have your armour
2 people like this
@psanasangma (7251)
• India
11 Aug
Sometime I wonder whether they have fun by doing so or they've been paid or it is simple how they are
the best way is not respond at all
@jaylar (371)
• Kingston, Jamaica
12 Aug
@psanasangma happened to me. I was earning and suddenly I was accused of something and angrily responded and boom... kicked off.
1 person likes this
@jstory07 (137828)
• Roseburg, Oregon
11 Aug
The man was probably mad that you went another way. I ignore people like that and do not react.
@jaylar (371)
• Kingston, Jamaica
11 Aug
he was so mad... I didn't say a word for days and then... came up with this big smile on my face and he was completely off balance.
And never parked there again. That's the amazing part. He'll park some distance in either direction but not near the access.
1 person likes this
