Total disregard

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I was talking with someone about how some people do not think rules apply to them. My mom in some aspects was a strict rule follower, but sometimes was not and I remember something she did that was totally disrespectful and possibly could have had dire consequences. Let me say that from the earliest I remember, Mom always thought her folks were "about to die". Even when nothing was wrong. "I need to spend Christmas with my parents, they may not live another year" etc. Grandpa was sick and was in the VA hospital near where he lived. I barely remember this, I must have been about 8 years old. We were going to see him. I DO remember Mom noticed a rash on my brothers chest and stomach, and said "we will just tell people it is flea bites or chiggers." We never had flea bites. I think grandpa actually visited us in a day room or waiting room. This would have been early 1960's--no masks, sanitizer, etc. My brother had chicken pox. I came down with it a few days later. Usually Mom explained that children under 12 could not go up to hospital rooms, etc. in any hospital, because kids often had contagious illnesses. But she ignored the idea of keeping my brother out, because it was HER dad and she wanted him to see my brother, etc. I hope no one got sick with chicken pox or shingles, which can happen when vulnerable people are exposed to chicken pox. I can remember being mildly scandalized even then. Oh, and Mom would never steal from anyone, but she would take starts of plants from public places and people she did not even know. As adults my brother was always afraid he would have to bail her out from someplace. Do as I say, not as I do. Rules are for everyone else.