Do you think three somes are ok during marriage?

I think that they are, for the simple fact that I don't think that two woman or two man should be together. And another reason is that you are bringing some one other than your spouse in the relationship, regardless if the other person knows, it's very dangerous/

no.. its not okie for me.. but it depends on individiual perception and for some he wont find any prblem in this

i think they are breaking their vows. and off course it is adultrey. i dont want my man to touch or lust at another woman. why would i wat him to do it in my presence? i want to be enough for him.

threesomes are tricky ?s...there are many double standards at play...without getting into all of that... i will say that i do not believe that they are breaking their vows... if there is a mutual understanding to the situation it can work...not saying its an ideal situation, just saying that in life, you have the ability/opportunity to make anything work...

i dont all tht i aint married till now..

nop..i think thats kinda cheating,...

We have tried it myself , my man and a other man. It was ok at that time. As long you dont do it every day

i wouldnt personally but everyone is different so if the couple go into it knowing exactly where they stand really there shouldnt be any problems,,i think it is only when one person cajoles another who isnt so sure and does it anyway that it could go awry,jealousy,hurt,rejection all cause pain even if the instigator means to cause no harm,,it is a two way street,but not one i would go down,i prefer manogomy.

Threesomes inevitably damage a marriage. People tried 'open marriage' during the 60s and 70s; I think most of them divorced. The intimacy and trust are removed when someone cheats or the couple has a threesome.

im against it.. but if u think itz ok.. then no probs.. all upto u..

umm...NO

NO, threesomes are not ok if you are married.. people don't take marriage to the full extent anymore it seems.. sad... No wonder divorce rates keep going up...

yes its ok for me

I can honestly say that I have tried that road. My husband wanted to do something different. He thought that if we just did what we did, life would get boring, and we'd get bored with each other. He didn't want cheating to become a problem so he suggested the open relationship. Of course at the time, I told him he was nuts, and that I wanted no part of it. Well time went on, and we decided to give it a try. It became a mess in a very short time. So my view on the whole thing has changed drastically. I think if you really love someone, the urge to want to be with others for the fun of it won't be there. If you respect each other, then I don't think trying something b/c of a fantasy of one person should be followed through. Each decision has a consequence, and too many people either ignore them, or don't think about them, but they are there, and they will show their ugly face at some point in time. My advice is to choose wisely, and make sure that whoever decides to do that is ready for the consequences of their decisions.

Threesomes seem to be something alot of people have fantasies about! I dont think they are healthy for a marriage, I would think it would cause problems such as jealousy..and maybe one of the partners to stray. I suppose if you both agree and are not jealous people it would work....but threesomes are not for me!

It depends on the couple. Threesomes can cause problems if the couple is not perfectly clear ahead of time on what they hope to accomplish and how far they want to go. You have to communicate.

I guess if both parties agree to it, for me I would say no, because I don't want to share my man and I know I am to jealous to have one. I really think they are wrong because you took vows at before God, but you can't stop what other people do, so as long as they don't bother me I guess they can do what they want.

the saying goes two's company and three's a crowd

yes i do, but only when partner agrees and enjoys watching and participating