Worrying.

@Kandae11 (55036)
August 25, 2024 9:56am CST
Why worry? Worrying wouldn't solve the problem, yet we worry - and sometimes needlessly. We worry over big things, little things, the past, present and future. We worry about health, finances, children, relationships - hard not to worry. Can we stop - l doubt it. What do you worry about most? My main worry is trying to stay healthy. What's yours? Pixabay image
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@Tampa_girl7 (50258)
• United States
25 Aug
It is incredibly hard not to worry. I know that God doesn’t want us to worry, but at times I still do. It is nothing in particular. I do my best to shake it off.
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@Kandae11 (55036)
25 Aug
I try to ignore it if possible. Think of life's good aspects.
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@RebeccasFarm (89883)
• Arvada, Colorado
25 Aug
I always love the photos you put Kandase..yes worry will kill you. I worry about money.
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@Kandae11 (55036)
25 Aug
Yes money or lack of it is a main worry because we need it to live the way we should and want. Unless of course we lived on a dessert island and caught our own food. I hope you are not worrying too much. Thank you - l love choosing the photos.
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• Arvada, Colorado
25 Aug
@Kandae11 Not too much, I have to take meds to stop worrying.
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@Kandae11 (55036)
25 Aug
@RebeccasFarm l suppose like anxiety pills? Everytime l hear of a dangerous hurricane approaching l tell myself l should keep some at hand.
@snowy22315 (180782)
• United States
25 Aug
I would say finances. They are always a concern.
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@Kandae11 (55036)
25 Aug
Yes indeed.
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@LeaPea2417 (37355)
• Toccoa, Georgia
25 Aug
I'm always worrying that my family will be okay, that nothing bad will happen to them.
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@LeaPea2417 (37355)
• Toccoa, Georgia
26 Aug
@Kandae11 I understand that.
@Kandae11 (55036)
25 Aug
I have an only child and l do worry about him.
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@porwest (90912)
• United States
25 Aug
In an odd, but perhaps predictable way, worrying has made me a fortune. I ALWAYS worried about being poor, and so, I have always worried myself out of the possibility of it ever happening and doing things to ensure it never does.
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@Kandae11 (55036)
25 Aug
That aspect of worrying can definitely bear fruit.
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@Kandae11 (55036)
25 Aug
@porwest Then there is the retrograde aspect of it. Like - l never learned to ride a bike, l was afraid of falling. I never climbed a tree, same reason. My sister did those things and had bruises to show which could be a bad thing or a good thing. In our early years we lived on an island surrounded by water so my mother kept us away from it - l still don't know how to swim...
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@porwest (90912)
• United States
25 Aug
@Kandae11 It always depends on what is being worried about. It can be productive or debilitating depending on the situation. If I worry that there may be bad drivers on the roadway with me, I might be more vigilant and drive more carefully. If I worry that my job might be compromised, I may perform my job better and be more aware of what I need to do to protect it. If I worry that my child may fall off the edge of a cliff, I may be more inclined to keep them farther away from the edge. I would then say, sometimes worrying DOES make a difference because it can make us step back and have a different perspective on things we might not have if we didn't care.
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@grenery8 (10664)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
26 Aug
i thought my sciatica is under control and suddenly, i feel small pain almost every day so, yes i worry this will be permanent.
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@Kandae11 (55036)
26 Aug
Continue doing what you did to get it under control in the first place and do research to get other ideas of what else you can do. Worrying usually makes our ailments worse . The fact that it is an occasional small pain you are feeling now means that it could disappear permanently with the right diet and treatment. Don't worry, look for a solution.
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@Kandae11 (55036)
29 Aug
@grenery8 Did you see the post l did "Pain, pain go away"?
@grenery8 (10664)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
29 Aug
@Kandae11 it says online it can disappear but when it appears again, i then figure out it came again, which is not cool for me. i have physiatrist meeting at the end of september but you're pretty much on your own. i ask but answers are not satisfying and doctors here don't work that hard. also, i hate the saying you can live with it. of course i can but why won't they make it easier. i think you're right, stress made it worse but as for exercising, i am still discovering it, sadly, after 2 years and on my own. i also started buying more vitamins, which i didn't do it before. thank you for your support.
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@much2say (55616)
• Los Angeles, California
25 Aug
I think worry is my middle name . My worrying is a network of things . . . mainly it's about everything related to the unknown future.
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@Kandae11 (55036)
25 Aug
I agree, the future can be very worrying.
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• Philippines
25 Aug
I worry a lot, the only thing that makes me stop myself from worrying -intentionally, by knowing worrying is a sin... worrying meaning we are not trusting God, which is a good reason to stop worrying... but then most of the time I was hit by worries when I lost my focus in Christ.
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@Kandae11 (55036)
25 Aug
Even when we believe there are some situations where our input is needed - "God helps those who help themselves". One can't sit around and expect " manna to fall from heaven". When we believe , we do our part and God will do the rest to help us succeed.
@RasmaSandra (79886)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
25 Aug
I have stopped worrying as long as life goes the way it should for me, Worrying is bad for my ansiety,
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@Kandae11 (55036)
25 Aug
Apart from mental, too much worrying can actually cause physical ailments.
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@JudyEv (340118)
• Rockingham, Australia
26 Aug
I used to worry most when we were house-sitting. I'd worry about the pets mostly - dogs, cats, sheep, horses. They would sometimes get themselves into scrapes and have to be rescued.
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@Kandae11 (55036)
26 Aug
Oh yes, l understand . I would worry too if l was house-sitting.
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@Shiva49 (26684)
• Singapore
26 Aug
For me, there is a thin line between worrying and thinking. I think of the worst-case scenario and get ready for it. My worry is for a quick passing instead of a labored one.
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@Kandae11 (55036)
26 Aug
I do the same think. Try to find a solution for the worst case scenario, then put it out of my mind.
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@sarik1 (7234)
26 Aug
I do not worry . i believe in god.
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@Kandae11 (55036)
26 Aug
Awesome.
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@dya80dya (36657)
26 Aug
I am worried because I am not an independent person.
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@Kandae11 (55036)
26 Aug
Having our independence makes a big, big difference in how we face the world.
@Beestring (14561)
• Hong Kong
25 Aug
I wouldn't say worry, but money and health are my main concerns. Actually, I do not worry a lot. I live in the moment.
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@Kandae11 (55036)
25 Aug
It can be controlled.
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