Prayers Answered
By TaxiLady
@Ghostlady (1395)
United States
September 8, 2024 12:16am CST
My youngest daughter and I do not get along very well. She is Bi-Polar Manic Depressent and hasn't been on any meds for a couple of years. We just can't get along for more than a day or two. She stayed with us for about a month, and I was always slipping her $10 or $20 when I could. She couldn't keep a job as she is also OCD, and wanted everything perfect when she was stocking at Walmart, and they wanted it stocked quickly. Anyway..we got iinto it, and she left telling me as far as she was concerned she had no mother.
So I decided that maybe I would let her know what it was like to not have one. I didn't text her, call her, and IF she texted me about something going wrong...I waited a day or two, then texted... I hope things work out for you, I Love You and nothing else was said.
I was surprised she wanted to come see me...and of course immediately thought she would ask for some money...but she didn't...she hugged me, and asked why I was using a walker. Told me she had a job, and roommates..who were waiting on her in their car. She was driving. Didn't stay but a few minutes, but it felt good to hug her and see she was okay. I worry about her, and pray for her every night. Have not heard from her in a month or so...so I was getting a Little worried, but then again the only time I heard from her it was about something gone wrong...so then thought maybe everything was good...and so it is. Prayers answered.
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15 responses
@marguicha (223777)
• Chile
8 Sep
My eldest daughter is bipolar. But she has always managed reasonable well with the aid of meds and a doctor.
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@marguicha (223777)
• Chile
8 Sep
@Ghostlady Once in a while, my daughter thinks that she can do better with no meds. It seems that that is part of the problem. My other daughter and I have to convince her that meds are good for her. It is difficult. In your case, losing the custody of her child could have made everything worse. Take care.
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@everwonderwhy (7376)
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9 Sep
@Ghostlady
May peace and grace of our compassionate G-d be with you and your daughter. Much love and prayer of restoration for you and your daughter, @Ghostlady.
As He has promised, "I will never leave you nor forsake you."
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@everwonderwhy (7376)
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8 Sep
I feel your sadness and concerns. You are the absolute best mother she will always feel and realise that she is very blessed to be your daughter. One day it will make sense to her.
God always hears your faithfulness and prayers.
God always hears your faithfulness and prayers.2 people like this
@everwonderwhy (7376)
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9 Sep
@Ghostlady I hope your precious daughter gets a really restful no-stress school break after finally finishing high school.
Believe in yourself with confidence and enthusiasm. Your daughter will honour and respect you for that.
Let our children know and show that we, mothers, are not afraid of anything. Fear not!
Keep doing what you are doing with your daughter filled with love, support and mutual respect and kindness.
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@Ghostlady (1395)
• United States
8 Sep
Wasn't the best mother I COULD have been, but I always made sure she had what she Needed, and a lot of times what she Wanted. Made a lot of mistakes, but Tried to do the right thing. Did not know she was Bi=polar or Manic Depressed until her last year of High School.
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@GardenGerty (160952)
• United States
9 Sep
What a great treat. I know we have to keep loving those difficult people.
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@RebeccasFarm (90474)
• Arvada, Colorado
8 Sep
It's a fine line between being able to care for her and catering to her..I know what you mean. Glad she came to see you.
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@wolfgirl569 (108144)
• Marion, Ohio
8 Sep
Glad she is doing good. Sometimes tough love is what is needed
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@Ghostlady (1395)
• United States
8 Sep
True..it was hard at first, but now that I see she CAN take care of herself, it has become easier.
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@2ndchances24 (9290)
• Cloverdale, Indiana
8 Sep
Sometimes we have to just let go of the 1's we love for them to
grow up & have their space & lessons in life to teach them we're
here if & when they need us, & god does the rest.
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@Ghostlady (1395)
• United States
8 Sep
So True. But being a mother, I still worry..hoping These Roommates she has works out for her.
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@2ndchances24 (9290)
• Cloverdale, Indiana
8 Sep
@Ghostlady that's normal to worry about our family
no matter what the case may be.
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@snowy22315 (182193)
• United States
9 Sep
I hear you I really do.Sometimes actually often, they come around. It seems like patience is key.
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@RasmaSandra (80748)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
8 Sep
So glad at least she stopped by to see you, Good that your prayers were answered and I hope she stops by again,
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
8 Sep
That must bd so difficult for you. Gkad she dropped by to see you and that she seems to be doing well.
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@SIDIKIMPOLE (1793)
• Eldoret, Kenya
9 Sep
Sure true, prayers answered. I wish her well, I wish you well too!
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@solidcodes (1765)
• Philippines
8 Sep
So meaning she is already cured and okay now?
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@Ghostlady (1395)
• United States
8 Sep
No, there really is no cure for Bi-polar, only medication helps it.
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@Faster16 (3181)
• Indonesia
9 Sep
It’s heartwarming to hear that things seem to be on the upswing with your daughter, even if it’s just a brief visit. It must have been a relief to see her doing okay and to share that hug. Family dynamics can be incredibly challenging, especially with mental health struggles in the mix. It's great to see that you’re holding onto hope and supporting her in your own way. Prayers and patience often lead to positive outcomes, even if they come slowly.
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@LindaOHio (181643)
• United States
9 Sep
I'm glad she stopped by. I'm sorry it's been so hard on you. You did the best that you could do.
