Do you know people who have a hard time admitting they were wrong?

@TheHorse (214698)
Walnut Creek, California
September 20, 2024 12:38pm CST
I was on a river rafting trip several decades ago with my then girlfriend Lisa and her family. The guide and I were cooking up a rattlesnake we had killed. It was in our campsite, and we could have just shooed it off, but we were worried it would return to snuggle with one of us warm-blooded people in our sleeping bag. Anyway, as the guide and I (he and I were both in our 20s at the time) were cooking up dinner (we had steaks and corn--not just rattlesnake), I looked toward the Southeast. "Look! Orion!" He said, "No, Orion is a Winter constellation. That's Scorpius." I researched what he had said when I got home and learned that he was right. Of course, I never got to see him again to thank him. Years later, I tried to pass what I had learned on to someone here In the Bay Area. He made exactly the same mistake I had made decades before as we were sipping a beer on my balcony. I tried to explain to him that Orion and Scorpius were 180 degrees opposed to each other in the night sky, but he would not have it. "I took a Ptolemy class," he said. "I know these things." It took him more than a year to admit that he had been mistaken. With politics in the news these days, we see lots of people who have a hard time admitting they were wrong. Both @Porwest and I were wrong about the dogs and cats thing in Springfield Ohio. We (OK, I'll speak for myself: *I*) thought it was just a goofy ploy by Republicans to distract Democrats. But it turned out Trump believed it too, and now he's talking about it, as if it were true, in his speeches. So Jim and I area eating crow (heh), while Springfield worries that Trump might actually visit there. I was about to write abut my misunderstanding of the Freudian term, "Thanatos," but I just realized that I was right abut a part that I thought I had been wrong about. Sigh. I have to do more research. And I'm not being facetious. I have more learnin' to do. Do you know people who have a hard time admitting they were wrong about something? Do you think that tendency inhibits learning?
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@rakski (114582)
• Philippines
8h
I know someone who feels like she knows it all.
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@rakski (114582)
• Philippines
2h
@TheHorse She is educated. Probably her upbringing or her superiority complex. I rather not be with her
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@TheHorse (214698)
• Walnut Creek, California
2h
@rakski The smartest people I know tend to be humble. But realistic.
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@TheHorse (214698)
• Walnut Creek, California
6h
How did she become that way? Is she well-educated?
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@RasmaSandra (78025)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
7h
I hate what I call uppity people and for that reason I have chosen to remain alone, I don't want to start a new life and suppose I wind up with a person who horrors I cannot stand after all,
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@RasmaSandra (78025)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
6h
@TheHorse I am taking no changes, I had some fellows I got into chats with and all of them were odd because they thought you could really find out about a person just by chatting online, Luckily once I informed them otherwise and that I would not want another involved relationship they just went away,
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@TheHorse (214698)
• Walnut Creek, California
6h
@RasmaSandra My internet friends are my internet friends.
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@TheHorse (214698)
• Walnut Creek, California
6h
I find that most people are basically good. And that most are interested in acquiring new information. But some feel always vulnerable, and are scared to learn new things.
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@celticeagle (164392)
• Boise, Idaho
43m
That's life. It's all about the journey and learning along the way. I will admit to several occasions when I didn't want to admit to being wrong. But, you know what? It gave me a warm feeling to be honest about it. Figure that one out.
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@TheHorse (214698)
• Walnut Creek, California
34m
I understand the warm feeling. Were becoming one with those around us who have helped us understand...
@much2say (54916)
• Los Angeles, California
3h
Oh yes . . . we know a few of those . We learn if we can be open to things . . . even if we discover we were wrong. Close minded folks already have their minds made up - they go no higher than the height of their high horse.
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@TheHorse (214698)
• Walnut Creek, California
3h
In the end, they keep themselves ignorant, and more subject to exploitation by others.
@Tampa_girl7 (49945)
• United States
8h
I have known a know it all or two that would never admit to being wrong.
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@TheHorse (214698)
• Walnut Creek, California
6h
Do you know how he or she became that way?
@TheHorse (214698)
• Walnut Creek, California
1h
How did you deal with this person?
@JudyEv (335364)
• Rockingham, Australia
2h
I think pride often comes into it when people can't admit they're wrong.
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@TheHorse (214698)
• Walnut Creek, California
2h
But isn't being smart, and trying to acquire new information, a sign of...something commendable?
@kaylachan (66088)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
3h
I think we all have a hard time admitting we were wrong sometimes. We always want to be right.
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@TheHorse (214698)
• Walnut Creek, California
3h
I tend to be pretty good about that, I think. If someone provides evidence to me from a reliable source (for example the NYT, a scholarly journal I respect, or an FBI website), I am willing to examine my views.
@xander6464 (42650)
• Wapello, Iowa
4h
Does crow taste better than rattlesnake?
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@TheHorse (214698)
• Walnut Creek, California
3h
We under-cooked the rattlesnake. It reminded me of squid. Tiny birds always seem dry to me. I have only eaten crow metaphorically. But I like metaphor. Especially with a bit of wasabi and soy sauce on the side.
@wolfgirl569 (102597)
• Marion, Ohio
4h
I know people like that. I usually have no problem but can at times.
@akalinus (42451)
• United States
9h
I know people who are always right. There is no sense in discussing anything because I will be wrong and they will be right.
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@TheHorse (214698)
• Walnut Creek, California
9h
How do you deal with those people?