Sometimes its good to STOP and help, just to do it without expecting anything in return
By Mark
@MNHNJP (25)
Parsippany, New Jersey
October 4, 2024 12:31am CST
On September 26, 2019, after Child Psychology class, I was walking to my car. I saw a 21 year old man pacing back and fourth and he seemed to be upset. Everybody was walking by him, (including me). I stopped and said to myself, maybe he is upset and needs someone to talk to just for a little bit. I turned around and went up to him. I saw tears, and asked him if he was ok and if I could help him. He said he missed something with friends, and there was a problem at work.
I asked him if he has work today, and he said no, tomorrow, however he has classes that day.
I was able to calm him down, did distractive talking for a bit, and than we talked about his situation. Before I left, I wanted to make sure he was ok to be alone, I asked him questions that would reassure my self that he was going to be ok. He confirmed it.
He may have a small minor disability or however whether he did or not, I was glad I was able to help calm him down and hopefully I made his day.
I remember when I was 21 and I had a lot of trouble, thoughts in my head about work or whatever was in my mind. It was very hard, and all we can do sometimes is; sometimes become undone. However, its always nice to have someone there, just to know if you care. Even if you don't know them, just to make sure you are ok.
I felt bad for him, because I saw me when I was younger, especially when I was in Madison somewhat "homeless" at 24.
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@somewitch (1409)
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4 Oct
Whoa, my eyes are watery.
It's great you found the courage to go talk to that guy. I'm sure it made a difference.
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@MNHNJP (25)
• Parsippany, New Jersey
4 Oct
It is important when people are in distress, to evaluate to make sure that everything is stable before leaving them. I am studying Psychology, not only do I have a obligation to make sure the situation is stable and safe for that person before leaving them, I want to as well.
This was at the college I go to.
@anya12adwi (9816)
• India
4 Oct
In this world, people really want to help, but the problem is they don't know whom to trust!
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