Happy Thanksgiving to the Canadians here

@BarBaraPrz (47254)
St. Catharines, Ontario
October 14, 2024 10:39am CST
Yes, it's a day that doesn't mean too much anymore to a lot of people who don't have family around them. When my mother was alive, my sibs and inlaws would get together for turkey, usually on the Sunday instead of the designated Monday (I don't know why we need to standardise all holidays to Monday... what good is a long weekend when you don't work?) So, now that Mom's gone, we don't get together any more. My one cousin in Toronto (an only child) would invited me for Thankgiving and Christmas when I lived in Hamilton but both she and her husband are smokers and I'd come home stinking of it. Add to that, the long bus ride into TO, then the long subway ride up to her neighborhood... after a few years I stopped going. No, I didn't cook a turkey. If it wasn't raining yesterday I would have gone out to do a bit of shopping and maybe bought a "TV dinner" but when you're reduced to taking a bus that only gets you near where you want to go, and you can't carry an umbrella because you're pushing a walker, you stay home and stay dry. So what did I have for my glorious feast? Stovetop stuffing and canned turkey, with a side of canned corn.
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@rebelann (112770)
• El Paso, Texas
14 Oct
I feel ya kiddo. None of these holidays mean anything to me either ...... I'm just happy my kritters and I woke up alive.
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@BarBaraPrz (47254)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
14 Oct
Yup. At least you have critters.
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@BarBaraPrz (47254)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
14 Oct
@rebelann There are some free range cats that come through my yard...
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@rebelann (112770)
• El Paso, Texas
14 Oct
True. I suppose it would be hard for you to adopt a pet but I hope you have a shelter close by so you can go and pet the many rescues that just need a loving visit.
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@celticeagle (166660)
• Boise, Idaho
14 Oct
That sounds like what we did last year.
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@BarBaraPrz (47254)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
15 Oct
Yummy...
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@celticeagle (166660)
• Boise, Idaho
21 Oct
@BarBaraPrz .......very
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@snowy22315 (180358)
• United States
14 Oct
Happy Thanksgiving to you.
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@BarBaraPrz (47254)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
14 Oct
Thanks.
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@FourWalls (67703)
• United States
14 Oct
I understand completely. It’s probably why I hate November and have to “double up” on my anxiety medication. There’s not much family left, and the ones I always gathered with are all gone. Plus, it was on Thanksgiving (our Thanksgiving) morning that my mom suffered the brain aneurysm. I’d just as soon go hibernate for November and December.
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@BarBaraPrz (47254)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
14 Oct
Me, too. It's too cold to venture out of my cave...
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@Juliaacv (51045)
• Canada
14 Oct
Happy Thanksgiving to you, I hope that you can draw on your sweet memories of holidays gone by.
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@BarBaraPrz (47254)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
14 Oct
Thanks.
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@RasmaSandra (79649)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
14 Oct
Glad you have memories of happier Thanksgivings, When ours comes in the US I also have just memories now, Glad that you at least had some turkey, I miss having those big turkeys, This year I will make sure I have a turkey frozen dinner in my freezer,
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@BarBaraPrz (47254)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
14 Oct
I hadn't thought to buy one myself because the Centre I attend had a turkey dinner lunch last Thursday, but the turkey wasn't very good. And it wasn't just me who thought so. Quite a few people didn't eat the turkey part of the dinner. It wasn't prepared by the Centre, but some church group volunteered it.
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@AmbiePam (92375)
• United States
14 Oct
I’m lucky to have a sister who will aways invite me to family dinners no matter what, even if she can’t stand me.
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• Philippines
16 Oct
No thanks giving here. We have also threw out the Xmas Tree and all the decorations. But we kept the lantern just to keep the Xmas Spirit.
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@TheHorse (218462)
• Walnut Creek, California
15 Oct
I miss family gatherings.
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@BarBaraPrz (47254)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
15 Oct
They were interesting...
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@LindaOHio (177809)
• United States
15 Oct
Our Thanksgiving is going to suck this year because I'm sure my husband won't be home. I will be alone again. I suppose I can get a Meals on Wheels Thanksgiving dinner because I will be alone. I'm sorry you had canned turkey. Have a good day.
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@BarBaraPrz (47254)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
15 Oct
Are you signed up for Meals on Wheels?
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@BarBaraPrz (47254)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
16 Oct
@LindaOHio Very good. I hope what they bring you is very good, too.
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@LindaOHio (177809)
• United States
16 Oct
@BarBaraPrz Yes. They offer a meal on Thanksgiving if you are alone.
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