Is the season changing?

@NJChicaa (119104)
United States
October 15, 2024 4:34pm CST
Yes of course we are in fall and heading toward winter but that isn't what I am referring to. It is a metaphor for the shift of things between my ex and I over the past month or so. We have been divorced for 5 years but are still on good terms and in touch though the extent of that shifts over the course of time. I don't know what happened with him. I don't ask questions about his private personal life when I think the answers might upset me. Still there has been a definite shift. He's been coming over. We've been texting. He keeps initiating exchanges on his own. I don't have any high hopes for anything but hearing from him and seeing him sure does make me smile.
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@marguicha (221452)
• Chile
15 Oct
I have ketp my fingers crossed all these years. You never knew, it seems, why did he want a divorce out of the blue.
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@JudyEv (337542)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Oct
Maybe sometimes people just grow up or mature or work out who/what they really want. I hope you don't get hurt but can just enjoy the good times.
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@GardenGerty (160242)
• United States
16 Oct
I guess it is good to be hopeful. You guys have always seemed to be friends. . .not bitter and angry.
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@NJChicaa (119104)
• United States
16 Oct
We are
@RebeccasFarm (89231)
• Arvada, Colorado
16 Oct
Nothing wrong with hope..we all need that in this ol world Chicaa. I am glad you still can smile.
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@sallypup (60386)
• Centralia, Washington
15 Oct
Me? I would want to know for sure what is up and not be on the hook hoping. But that's me.
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@Deepizzaguy (101298)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
15 Oct
Hopefully you remain friends with your former husband even it is from a distance.
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@kaylachan (67399)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
16 Oct
The fact yu can remain friends is a good thing.
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@LindaOHio (174662)
• United States
16 Oct
I would want to know what's going on with him. Have a good day.
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