Losing connection to humanity

Ahmednagar, India
October 20, 2024 11:04pm CST
Last night we were having post dinner discussion in our neighborhood. Kids from our nearby houses were playing in the open space in front of us. It was a safe place to play for kids as it's away from the busy roads. One of the elderly persons, sitting next to me remarked, these kids might not follow our tradition and culture when they become adults. They are questioning the "need" to follow certain things. He seemed helpless. According to him, traditions and cultures aren't followed to satisfy any "needs". Some things aren't to be questioned. And following the customs shouldn't be questioned, as they are thoughtfully started by the past many generations. Digital interference has gone in excess and that's hampering the thought process of today's generation, he feels. We weren't like today's kids when we were of their age. I think he has a lot of sense in what he is saying.
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@LindaOHio (179874)
• United States
21 Oct
Many children today are out of control, rude and do not respect authority and their elders. Have a good week.
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• Ahmednagar, India
21 Oct
That's so truly said. Children are really out of control these days. Why are they behaving like this is really mystery to me. As you said, they also don't show respect to their elders, the way our generation used to do that. They don't respect the authorities, and as you said, they want to have an impact of their own. Breaking rules is like being macho thing for them. What's also interesting is that the way you observed how children behave these days, it shows that generally this generation is overall behaving in the same way as they are behaving there or here. And it would not be exaggeration to say that the same my be the condition in various countries of the world. It's really getting difficult generation by generation.
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• Ahmednagar, India
21 Oct
@LindaOHio I'll say, parenting is an issue everywhere. It's not easy even in India here. Off late, there are a certain newly created laws for school-going kids, how they should be handled in schools by teachers, etc. And it looks like that has become a boon for the students. Teachers find it really difficult to manage the students which was comparatively easier a generation back.
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@LindaOHio (179874)
• United States
21 Oct
@abhi_bangal And parents have to be so careful how they discipline the children here in the US.
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• India
22 Oct
If we look at last 70 years ,every generation has had some amount of rebellious nature , however now it may increased. For one, there is a huge emphasis on money and inequality in earning money has created a lot of issues. Every one is busy trying to be financially independent. So , we are not sentimental on traditions as we need to be. Unfortunately , thats what the young children sees. They see a less emphasis on traditions and more on money , no matter what we say or preach. Unless, we teach ourselves and follow ourselves, the next generation may not accept the traditions as we would like to. Technology also has a part , since we are now relying on same for everything in life.So the value system needs to be taught and followed diligently by all.
• Ahmednagar, India
22 Oct
Everything has become noisy these days, especially the lifestyle, fashion, the gadgets and articles we need to use in our daily life... everything. In a developing country like our's the value of money is fast decreasing. A decade back what the value of Rupee 1 was, is not the same today. Also if you see like 2 to 3 decades back the percentage of poor people is not what it was then. People are sufficiently well-to-do these days and the race to earn money seems like it's going to be a never-ending race. In any kind of market if you see the sellers are offering a certain thing priced 10 or 20 rupees more than what the normal price should have been. Because they know that people are capable of paying those extra 20-30 rupees. The figures that I mentioned, are only for the sake of example. Now you can multiple them by keeping various sectors in front of your eyes, like IT sector or real estate, etc. When there is such a race to earn money, who will give value to customs, cultures, and traditions? That's why I feel "garbh sanskar" are quite important.
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@RebeccasFarm (90063)
• Arvada, Colorado
21 Oct
My compassion goes to the elderly ones, to be respected, but in this new world, they lose all reality.
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• Ahmednagar, India
22 Oct
So truly said. There's nothing like compassion and love left. But on second thoughts, could that loss of compassion and love could be because of immaturity? I mean, kids aren't that mature enough to understand what feelings are. Just my thoughts. They are far from reality. Don't know what's going to happen in the next 3 to 4 generations...
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@wolfgirl569 (107025)
• Marion, Ohio
21 Oct
Things change all the time
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• Ahmednagar, India
22 Oct
I think this some Sab everything that we have top so far. Change is permanent as I have always read. And most of the times it's true. And I think that's nature's cycle to keep things changing. If everything were permanent, there wouldn't be any fun left in living. But I think moral values like respect to the elders or the kids listening to their parents, etc shouldn't change. Some things are better when they are permanent.
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@Dreamerby (5371)
• Calcutta, India
22 Oct
But change is the only thing that is constant. Also all traditions weren't good.
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• Ahmednagar, India
22 Oct
That's not wrong what you are saying. Traditions are in place. They are there where they need to be. It's up to us to decide what we have to follow. By the way, yes, change is constant.
@somewitch (1397)
21 Oct
Unfortunately kids don't understand the value and purpose of many things until later, no matter how hard you try to explain, but generally I believe critical thinking is a good thing. I admire how children are blunt and naive yet open and free, and I'd argue I respect them more than many hypocritical adults.
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• Ahmednagar, India
22 Oct
Exactly. You pointed out two things in the very first sentence, mentioning "kids" and "not understanding the values and purposes" of many things. I won't put anyone else's example, but my own. My father used to guide me and try to make me see sense in a lot of things as a child. But I was more irresponsible and always took things slightly. I didn't understand why my father was telling me certain things to do. But now as an adult, I really miss those days and feel like what he was telling me was for the good of me after all. And sometimes I feel like it's too late to carry out what he had guided me to do. So, I try to follow those things that I should have followed long long back.
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@jstory07 (139774)
• Roseburg, Oregon
21 Oct
Todays children are different than we used to be.
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• Ahmednagar, India
21 Oct
Without a doubt. We used to respect our teachers, our parents, our elderly people some us. There was a sense of both fear and respect in that. It's nowhere to be seen today
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