Wow it's been a year
@hillhjill (23717)
United States
October 21, 2024 1:26am CST
I can't believe that it's been that long since I was last on, alot has changed for me within that time.. so it might be a long read.
Oct 28th 23- I had weight loss surgery, it was a hard process getting to know my new stomach and what I could handle and not. So far I've lost 168 pounds and I think that's where I'm stopping. My pounds keep going up a couple then back down a few. It's been fun tho at the same time. I look like a different person...
The hard part... The ones on here that know me, know that my husband pj is a very sick person. Well he's not sick no more because he passed Sept 4th of this year. After being together for 19 years I'm all alone.
I don't think I'm going to go into much details on this post and save it for another.
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@LovesEverybody (4525)
• United States
21 Oct
I am sorry about your husband. It is hard to lose those we love. Do you mind if I pray for you? I know some people don't like it
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@hillhjill (23717)
• United States
21 Oct
Thank you and it is so hard..no l dont mind.
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@hillhjill (23717)
• United States
21 Oct
Thank you and yes he was very sick and tired...I take all the hugs I can get.
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@RasmaSandra (79714)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
21 Oct
Sorry for your loss, It is hard to adjust to being all alone, Do you have any pets? I have two cats and they at least provide some company,
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@hillhjill (23717)
• United States
21 Oct
Thank you and yes I have a dog, it was his puppy but I kept her to rise as my own..and I'm living with my nephew but it's just not the same and that's why I feel all alone.
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@MommyOfEli2013 (83975)
• Rupert, Idaho
21 Oct
First, congrats on the weight loss - that is amazing! Second, I am so sorry for your loss...I can't imagine how hard that would be
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@hillhjill (23717)
• United States
21 Oct
Thank you on both, and yes it's so freaking hard being without him..18 years is a long time to be with someone and then they are gone like that.
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@MommyOfEli2013 (83975)
• Rupert, Idaho
22 Oct
@hillhjill No problem, and that does sound very hard to go through...like I said before I can't even imagine how hard it would be....especially when it happens like that..
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@MarieCoyle (37227)
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21 Oct
I am so very sorry about your husband. I hope you have friends nearby to help you through this. So, so sorry.
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@hillhjill (23717)
• United States
21 Oct
Thank you and I have my daughter and my nephew, my best friends live in TN but I talk to them often.
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@hillhjill (23717)
• United States
22 Oct
@MarieCoyle thank you and that's all I can do is one day at a time.
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@MarieCoyle (37227)
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22 Oct
@hillhjill
I am glad for you, that you have some family. I know it must be very hard, just take one day at a time.
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@thislittlepennyearns (62185)
• Defuniak Springs, Florida
21 Oct
I'm Sheryl for your loss
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@aureategloom (9417)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
21 Oct
i'm sorry for your loss. take care
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@2ndchances24 (8833)
• Cloverdale, Indiana
21 Oct
OH damn, I'm sorry to hear that, I know that wasn't easy to get through
What kind of weight surgery did you have done to lose the weight? if I may ask.
Glad to hear that you have a new weight that you can live with & it went well.2 people like this
@hillhjill (23717)
• United States
21 Oct
It wasn't easy to get through at all and it's still hard, just one day at a time.
I have the switch done..
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@hillhjill (23717)
• United States
22 Oct
@2ndchances24 yes we do, and that's one thing I let slip.. my health, but I'm working on it.
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@2ndchances24 (8833)
• Cloverdale, Indiana
22 Oct
@hillhjill Yeah life throws us curves we don't expect but yet
we have to keep pushing on & keep on top of our health.
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@somewitch (1385)
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23 Oct
So sorry about your husband. Almost 20 years, that's a long time. It must be very hard to cope with that while recovering from such a major surgery. I'm glad it was a success though, and you managed to lose 168 pounds, that's wonderful. You're very strong, even stronger than you realize. Take care.
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