a lot happened
By Yumeko
@aureategloom (9640)
Bosnia And Herzegovina
October 21, 2024 12:13pm CST
i saw that my last posted discussion was back in 2022. and i was complaining about a lot of things 
well, the good thing is - i accepted my fate and did that non-paid internship + passed my professional exam and got the job in the kindergarten for 7 months. i really liked working with kids, but my contract ended in May - which was okay because that was about the time when i started getting papers for the visa and wanted to spend time with my family and friends. i moved to another country like two months ago. thank God for everything.
has your life changed much? how are you dealing with the changes? 
well, the good thing is - i accepted my fate and did that non-paid internship + passed my professional exam and got the job in the kindergarten for 7 months. i really liked working with kids, but my contract ended in May - which was okay because that was about the time when i started getting papers for the visa and wanted to spend time with my family and friends. i moved to another country like two months ago. thank God for everything.
has your life changed much? how are you dealing with the changes? 10 people like this
8 responses
@somewitch (1387)
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21 Oct
Wow, that's a huge change and for the better. 
I tried a few new things in the last couple years but they didn't change my life, at best they changed my perspective. It's hard to go into details, just gonna say I realized many things weren't worth my time. 
I tried a few new things in the last couple years but they didn't change my life, at best they changed my perspective. It's hard to go into details, just gonna say I realized many things weren't worth my time. 2 people like this
@aureategloom (9640)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
22 Oct
perspective matters a lot
so i guess your life changed for better too (hopefully)?
so i guess your life changed for better too (hopefully)?1 person likes this
@somewitch (1387)
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22 Oct
@aureategloom In the last 10 years, maybe. In the last 2 years, no significant change. Which is okay, it could have changed for the worse but didn't happen.
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@aureategloom (9640)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
22 Oct
@rakski together with my new family, but apart from parents, brother and friends
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@allknowing (136540)
• India
22 Oct
Lots has happened in your life and all good. Welcome back.
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@aureategloom (9640)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
22 Oct
thank you i hope everything is fine on your end too
i hope everything is fine on your end too 1 person likes this
@akalinus (43209)
• United States
22 Oct
You make choices and then live with them. This is much better than when I lived in the trailer park. I fell a lot there.
The trailer park was a zoo sometimes. I had neighbors who were outlandish. I lived with my son but his girlfriend was unpredictable and acted out a lot. I was glad to leave.
This place is calm and serene most of the time. But I miss my family everywhere. I have family in New York State, Pennsylvania, California, Nevada, Oregon, and Idaho.
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@kaylachan (69824)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
21 Oct
Last year my husband had a stroke. Since then it's been a year at home as he tries to recover. He's been asking for more and more food, which is a good thing.
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@kaylachan (69824)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
22 Oct
@aureategloom He's doing quite well, and I'm thankful for everything he's done.
@aureategloom (9640)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
22 Oct
i've heard about it from the discussion i read and i'm sorry to hear that.
it's good that he's recovering, even if it's a slow process. i hope he gets better
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@akalinus (43209)
• United States
21 Oct
My life has changed a lot. I have moved several times and learning to adjust. I moved out of the trailer park when a new owner from Illinois showed up. She did not like my camper. There were new rules to follow. She did not want old units. She said it was illegal to give things away for free and said we could not leave things on the 'free' table anymore. I got out as soon as I could.
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@aureategloom (9640)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
22 Oct
i'm sorry to hear that, seems like a bad thing - but who knows, maybe it's all happening for a reason and for better change
how is the adjustment process going?
how is the adjustment process going? 1 person likes this
@akalinus (43209)
• United States
22 Oct
@aureategloom Things are better but they could be even better. It is what it is.
you did well accepting your faith, maybe that's all we sometimes need to do and not like that mad man don quixote riding to the wingmills@aureategloom (9640)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
24 Oct
i moved to another continent, that's all i'm going to say hahah 
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@grenery8 (10718)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
25 Oct
@aureategloom o,okay.europe is overrated in any case
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@aureategloom (9640)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
22 Oct
hmm maybe you can could take some actions towards change. it can be hard, but i'm sure you can do it
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@luisadannointed (6187)
• Philippines
21 Oct
That's a great journey and experience, I hope you will always stay positive, and get those dreams you wanted in the future. Congratulations for moving into a different country, I hope you can spend more time with your fam.
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@aureategloom (9640)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
22 Oct
those are some really kind words, thank you very much
unfortunately, i'm far from my parents and family. i see them only on video chat. but we'll be reunited soon enough hopefully
unfortunately, i'm far from my parents and family. i see them only on video chat. but we'll be reunited soon enough hopefully 