regret always comes later

@May2k8 (18311)
Indonesia
October 28, 2024 7:18am CST
A week has passed, my mother still remembers the suffering of her very stubborn sister, no one could persuade her to get the right treatment. Time continues to pass, since the end of April 2024 she has never been honest about the disease she is suffering from. When she could still talk she said it was just stomach upset because every time she ate she would vomit. 5 months passed and she was rushed to the hospital and the doctors had given up because no food or infusion could get into her body. Because the distance to get there is very far, we need 10 hours to get there. Unfortunately her (my aunty) condition is getting worse and unconscious, only gasping for breath. The next day we returned to Jakarta and precisely on October 21, 2024 at around 10 pm West Indonesia Time we received news that she had passed away. If we count the number of deaths, it is greater than the number of births this year.
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@grenery8 (9173)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
29 Oct
i am sorry for your loss. at least she's not suffering anymore. yes, in recent time, birth rates are really low.
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@May2k8 (18311)
• Indonesia
30 Oct
Thank you, when I was in the hospital I couldn't bear to see her suffering for 10 days, she still wanted to live in this world but her soul was already very serious, her liver and heart were damaged, it is possible that her kidneys were also unable to process foods to become vitamins.
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@May2k8 (18311)
• Indonesia
2h
@grenery8 Unfortunately when I was there her eyes were not open and her mouth could not speak anymore, she could still hear, it seemed like she was still trying to survive but her condition was very serious and it was no longer possible for her to survive.
@grenery8 (9173)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
13h
@May2k8 even one organ failing is enough and,more,dangerous. I am sorry you had to see her in that state but at least you were there for her which she surely appreciated.
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@snowy22315 (179440)
• United States
28 Oct
So sorry about your aunt.
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@May2k8 (18311)
• Indonesia
29 Oct
There are many things that cannot be told here, every family has its own problems, including here, I still have to take care of my parents who are sick and have not recovered yet. All efforts have been made but nothing has been able to really work (still rely on medicines).