Is ignoring hurtful comments a sign of weakness or strength?

India
October 29, 2024 11:53am CST
Be it in person or through social media, hurtful statements can severely impact a person’s emotional well-being. Whether the comments are made out of frustration, anger, carelessness or hatred, remarks often cause emotional issues for the recipient. It could be magnified in social media as it could potentially reach a larger audience. These days, many celebrities and even common people like us get hurtful comments through social media. Some of them are really awful and disrespectful. Yet, only some react to such social media comments and most choose to ignore those comments. I often believed that by remaining silent to such negative comments, the individuals get more courage to make more hurtful statements. There are moments where we need to protect yourselves and set boundaries. Again, there are some who would argue stating that it is a sign of maturity and avoiding or escalating conflicts. They state we should ignore such trivial conflicts and focus on one’s priorities. So , do you see engaging or walking away from hurtful comments the best way forward?
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@somewitch (1310)
29 Oct
I tend to be on the avoidant side, but it depends. If you're able to reply with comments while staying mature and polite, and you got people supporting you, then it might be worth the time. I mean, you might end up continuing the argument for the "fans", to provide some entertainment, not for the rude people themselves, out of rage.
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• India
14h
Guess avoidance depends on the scenarios we have. Thanks for sharing!
@grenery8 (9173)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
10h
you are right, in social media or elsewhere online, it is a lot more sensitive. there or in life, i always thought it is a coward act not to say anything but, in some situations, at least in person, the more you resist, the more you will be attacked. it depends. i would suggest walking away in real life and online as well.