Melancholy
By Aparna Sen
@Dreamerby (4687)
Calcutta, India
November 1, 2024 12:08pm CST
Sometimes I am just sad. I don't feel like doing anything. I feel like nobody understands me, not even my close people. I feel less enthusiastic and don't want to eat anything( well, I am not that much of a foodie). I need a friend to listen to me and talk with me and offer consolation and support. Unfortunately, I don't find anyone at that time.
I guess that's a part of growing up. Not everyone gets that friend even when you are that friend for others. I am kinda learning to manage myself whenever I feel this way. Hopefully, will reach there someday.
Do you feel this way sometimes? Do you get a friend who can listen to you at that time?
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@JudyEv (339464)
• Rockingham, Australia
3 Nov
@Dreamerby Mostly I just deal with it. It's hard sometimes to share it with anyone.
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@Dreamerby (4687)
• Calcutta, India
3 Nov
@JudyEv Don't you share it with your husband?
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@Dreamerby (4687)
• Calcutta, India
2 Nov
Do you share that with someone? Or just deal with it on your own?
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@Shivram59 (35255)
• India
3 Nov
Everybody feels so sometimes.I'm no exception.When I feel sad;I either start reading wildlife adventures or leave for long walk.This works.But now I can't have time to go for a walk.So I have now adopted a strategy.I stop thinking about my sadness.Instead;I begin doing something else;such as managing my store even as talking to my customers.Soon my sadness gets disappeared.
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@Shivram59 (35255)
• India
7 Nov
@Dreamerby Yes.As long as your mind is focused on your sadness;you can't find a way out.
@Dreamerby (4687)
• Calcutta, India
7 Nov
That's a really good trick to ward off melancholy...engaging in some work.
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@aureategloom (9320)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
1 Nov
i think it's okay to feel that way sometimes. what's important is that you get out of that state of mind and go on with your life. i hope you find a way to deal with it 
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@Dreamerby (4687)
• Calcutta, India
2 Nov
Year's ending is making me upset I guess. Glad I have mylot to share my thoughts.
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@grenery8 (10242)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
2 Nov
@Dreamerby me too.i worked so hard this year,tried mending some relations too but,it was hard,still is and am waiting for a small miracle,if it comes.yes,hold on!
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