I had to bring a banana smoothie to my bedroom. A rant.
By marguicha
@marguicha (222873)
Chile
November 10, 2024 11:01am CST
Just when I was starting to take my computer to the dining room, Dixie called.
She hadn´t answered my call yesterday but I thought that her prayer meeting had been late. But no, she had also gone to see one of Humberto´s cousins who is with terminal cancer.
Humberto did not go with her. He went with some chums for dinner.
Dixie told me that she had a lot to do because they were going asailing for 2 weeks. I had pleaded Humberto and I had pleaded her not to go. If Humberto wanted to go, I could go to Dixie´s and stay there. But Dixie said that if she said no, Humberto would not go either so she was going.
I´m angry at him. Dixie is still walking with a cane. She is still with therapy and comes back yelling with pain. And any sailor knows that being aboard a sail boat is different than standing where the earth does not move. Worse still, they are going to the south of Chile where the Ocean is not "Pacific" at all.
And on top of that, Humberto is a doctor. So it is not ignorance.
I can´t do anything. They will go. And Dixie will come back ready to start again with therapy from the begining.
Next week I´ll go to Dixie´s ( she had some goat´s cheese for me) and I´ll also go to the doctor to see if I can have some tests done. But I will not touch the subject. I´m sure that she´ll be filling suitcases and Humberto will be playing chess in his computer. I should call the Me Too movement for women´s abuse.
I had a friend once that was very much into politics and cared very much about woman´s rights. Sometimes she confessed to me that she felt that some women did not deserve her work. I agreed. Dixie is brilliant in some ways but she pampers Humberto as if he was a baby.
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@marguicha (222873)
• Chile
10 Nov
I´m absolutly sure that it won´t help her. Humberto should be more generous. And Dixie should be more strong.
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@marguicha (222873)
• Chile
11 Nov
@rakski My husband would not have dared do that. But I am different too.
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@celticeagle (166762)
• Boise, Idaho
10 Nov
Good luck to Dixie and the sailing affair. Dixie and her ways with her hubby are rather foreign to me. I was always too independent to baby a guy. Yes
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@marguicha (222873)
• Chile
11 Nov
My husband would not dare do the things Humberto does to Dixie. But it is not his fault completly. Dixie tells ME that Humberto is not helping her more now, but she should tell him. I have asked Humberto for favors that Dixie, his wife, does not dare ask. Years ago, they were moving to another house and I went to help. I passed through the front door where the 2 girls (then teens) were dancing and singing while Humberto looked at them with love. I found Dixie crying sitting on the floor in another room. She told me that she would not be able to put all in boxes. I stormed to the other room and yelled to the 3 happy people that their mom an wife was crying and working. GO TO WORK, I yelled. They obeyed me immediatly and all said sorry. Dixie should have done that. And hours before.
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@wolfgirl569 (105977)
• Marion, Ohio
10 Nov
I don't think she is going to be able to enjoy it.
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@marguicha (222873)
• Chile
11 Nov
She won´t. Her foot will hurt and she will be miserable. Dixie told me the last time I talked with her that Humberto and his cousin had planned this trip a long time ago. But she is his wife and plans can be unmade
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@marguicha (222873)
• Chile
11 Nov
I tend to thin that spoilt people are like toddlers. Humberto is very intelligent EXCEPT in such moments.
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@LindaOHio (178124)
• United States
11 Nov
I'm sorry that Dixie is going on the cruise. I hope she's OK. Have a good week.
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@marguicha (222873)
• Chile
11 Nov
I´d say that the fault is 50%from Humberto (he should know hoe she is) And 50% Dixie (she sgould tell her).
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@RevivedWarrior (2199)
• India
11 Nov
That seems interesting. Perhaps Humberto will realize how Dixie has been caring for him while she is away for a few days. However, I cannot understand how Humberto the doctor is unable to do the neccessary things. Atleast a doctor needs to empathetic! There are times when women are taken for granted. Sometimes , women need to stand up for themselves. Good thing you are going there. Even if you are not going to talk on the subject or diffuse on the matter, still it may bring peace to Dixie's mind. Not sure Humberto will get any sense on the matter. I did feel Dixie pampering Humberto in some cases. Atleast some cases!
@marguicha (222873)
• Chile
11 Nov
Dixie is very strong but she pampers Humberto indecently. And she she big ailments. Not only she has had 2 open heard surgeries, but she has side effects from that. And a while ago she was run by a car and she has a lot of problems that in a normal person would be fixed with surgery. But nobody will dare do the procedure and she is in therapy and walking with a cane. This is when I wish I could spank Humberto as I would do with a child but it is not his fault entirely.
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@marguicha (222873)
• Chile
10 Nov
I think that hubbies have to take care of their wives instead of the other wat around. Dixie is absolutly wrong.