My co-worker telling me to relax and dont make any scene!
By Lee anne
@prexie (360)
South Korea
November 12, 2024 1:24am CST
Yesterday! is the super bad day for me or should i called it worse day ever!!
we only 2 working inside as a frontdesk , she is 2years older than me ,she really looks like my big sister, infact! i tell her always my secret too because i feel comfortable to her and she likes giving advice to me also , but yesterday i was trying to figure it out to myself what will happen next to me?? which i need to think 100%to decide! to make the stories short ,let's call my co worker as a "mosquito" !she had a bad tummy in the morning and continue went to toilet, and one time she left her phone on our under desk, and its continue beeping!, yes there is a message continue showing ,im curious about the message because she said to me also, that she dont have a bf? its from line application, i can read korean letters tho so i can read a little message that showing on her phone screen, the profile picture is too small so i cant see it well, when im about to start to touch her phone, suddenly mosquito cameback! . and get her phone, by the way mosquito is from cambodia!.During our lunch time , i tried to tease her and saying, why she didnt told me that she have a korean bf? but she replied to me sarcastic and said "its none of ur business"! i was so shocked that she saying like that ?thats the started im suspicious the guy he talking , inside the toilet, while we both do remake up she put her phone near the table sink and she goes inside toilet again and forget her phone open, this time i try to touch her phone in hurry and click the message because she didnt lock her phone! wow and its make me drowning seeing the profile photo !whose sending her message is my bf! yes my korean lost long bf that ghosting me for a month now , i feel betrayed! i was mad but no words cameout in my mouth,!! i just cant believe if this is true , is this for real!? i feel lost that time , she out in the restroom and she saw me holding her phone! and she told me quicky to relax and dont make any scene!! ??.. do i need to listen to her explanation???? why i feel she makes me stupid all this time? did i deserved it? she's a f***ing snake! that's why she always told me to find another and dont wait my korean man ????.
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7 responses
@aureategloom (11150)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
13 Nov
THE PLOT TWIST!! 
well, i don’t think you should be snooping at her phone - no matter the circumstances.
and about her new boyfriend/your ex - just move on. obviously you deserve to be surrounded by better people and not the ones like them. let them be 
what will you do?
well, i don’t think you should be snooping at her phone - no matter the circumstances.
and about her new boyfriend/your ex - just move on. obviously you deserve to be surrounded by better people and not the ones like them. let them be
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@aureategloom (11150)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
14 Nov
@prexie i hope you can shake off the bad feelings you're having. i don't think they're worth your time and energy.
@prexie (360)
• South Korea
13 Nov
i just need to be patient 2days more to go work and byebye and i cant wait to out ,i feel drained if im here in my work! , we always eat outside together every lunch but now its totally different , we just both stranger na,acting we dont know each other too and its very hard working like this ,i hate her so much.
@prexie (360)
• South Korea
12 Nov
honestly im not fine :( i think some of my friends here in mylot, red my stories before about the work iwant,i guess
i have a reason now to stop working there !:( i decided to quit my job,i will be working until 15th day only,actually this morning, i didnt go to my work , because maybe the moment ill see mosquito ,maybe i will puke! and cant control it, but i will never think to make a scene and fight just for the men .this time we are working but we never talk to eachother, its kind of awkward to work with her! only i felt now, she is outsiders and act that i dont know her too!
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@larish (2234)
• Philippines
12 Nov
@prexie, it is nice to hear how optimistic and decisive you are in taking your next move. I believe that you are perfectly choosing the right path. I agree that it makes a lot of sense to quit your job and continue to move forward without the presence of "mosquito" and your ex-boyfriend. It is nice to have a fresh start. It maybe hard at first but once you get the hang of it, I am sure you will be fine.
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@luisadannointed (6328)
• Philippines
13 Nov
Wow!!!! Its like you are filming your own korean drama on its boiling climax!
I really don't know what to do, maybe I will just found my hand flying on her face without me thinking. I guess you have a lot of controlling to do, you know just kill them with a good attitude, and dont you ever dare make a scene in your office that will make you jeopardize your work for that worthless mosquito and your good for nothing boyfriend.
Forgive not for them but for yourself. And I hope that God will fill you with strength to survive all the days of your life with a mosquito beside you, or hoping that God will give you a better job very soon.
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@luisadannointed (6328)
• Philippines
14 Nov
@prexie
I think so, they can sleep very well, most of the thief are all mentally ill, i am not kidding, i mean they have this delusion that what happened and what they did is right, they have extreme denial of the truth that they did not do anything evil.
Only a few of them have conscience.
But I pray that God will protect you from them, an always be mindful at work, because if she can betray you just like that, she might do something at work to make you look bad. Please stay away from her, and make sure that you keep your job away from her.
Just please control yourself, and dont do anything, just pray.
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@prexie (360)
• South Korea
14 Nov
i believe that there is a karma , i dont deserve it also. god knows i didnt do anything wrong, i dont want to use my hand and touch that dirty insect like her! ,all i can say is , its good she get my waste ! and i dont need to wait for a reason why my bf lefts me, mosquito gave me a peace of mind to let go my bf and for her, i hope she can sleep well everynight :) im sure she does right??
@cabuyogty (3053)
• Philippines
14 Nov
You didn't deserve it. I hope your company HR will do something about this and try to be calm whenever she bullies you. I hope your coworkers will look up on you and believes in you. It seems that my lady neighbor always do this behavior and until now she didn't stop oh my goodness! 
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@grenery8 (11049)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
13 Nov
as things are now, she can use you touching her phone against you so maybe not touching her phone from now on. if she's really talking to your, can i say, ex boyfriend, i think it will be the best to distance yourself from her, be just formal to her and not share any details from your private life, nothing. they are both at wrong and she should apologize, since you considered her close. i am sorry, you didn't deserve this.
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@grenery8 (11049)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
15 Nov
@prexie i think karma will find her and that boyfriend cause, if he cheated on you, he will definitely do this to her or she will do this to him. i think this kind of karma revenge is okay and you're not a demon though, some demons are better than rude humans
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@prexie (360)
• South Korea
14 Nov
maybe thats why she was trying to introduce me also to others, she said she was planning to out and work in abroad also, i think she seducing my bf ,idontknow im hopeless :(, she know what i want and that is my mistake to tell her my plan, now its a big lesson to me, not all friends surrounds me is true, i regret it , i hope both of them get there deserve karma!, im not a demon tho but i think, i want a peace of mind also, a simple revenge is fine. :)
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@mykmari (30)
• Philippines
15 Nov
Well I'd say that is quite a pill to swallow. This situation is what I call "blessing in disguise". But I hope you would eventually get to appreciate what God is trying to make you realize. You mentioned that your boyfriend has been ghosting you - and now you know the reason for him doing so. However, you don't need to confront him. If you do, I feel you're just showing him that you 'need' him or are madly in love with him and this isn't necessary - especially now. As for your co-employee / confidante, you have seen her true color. Now, you have to carry on without these 2 'snakes' in your life. It'll be easier said than done. But best of luck for you. I know God will bring you someone who will truly care for you - in the right time. Hang in there.
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