A nice visit from you-know-who

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I've mentioned several times before that things between my ex-husband and I ebb and flow. We've been divorced for 5 years. There are times when we are 100% good and there are times when we are barely speaking. Sometimes he blocks my number and sometimes I block his. The one constant though is that we do still very much love each other and he is always there for me if I need something. I was blocked for a couple of months but he unblocked me after Hurricane Helene hit Asheville in September. His parents live there and he knew that I would be worried about them. We've stayed in contact since and things have been good. . . even better than good. Today we went back and forth via text all day. I pretty much knew where things would wind up--with him just happening to be in the area (we live only like 10 minutes away from each other in any case) and wanting to stop by. I am always fine with him stopping by whether it is announced or not. So he came by about 2 hours ago. The cats were all happy to see him--even Adso who very few people have ever seen. We sat on the couch and talked for awhile and then, well, we got distracted by something else. It was a nice visit. It is always good to see him. I don't know what the future holds but for now I am just grateful that we are in a good spell. Last night he got a bit snippy with me via text so I just let it go and went to bed. I woke up to an apology saying that it had been a long week. He ended it with "Sleep well. Love you." That is a perfect example of how odd our current relationship is. Oh well. It works for us. When he left he asked "talk to you tomorrow?" Who knows what tomorrow will bring.