Short Story: When helping is not helping

There is a time for proper procedure to lord it over unqualified helpfests
@innertalks (22346)
Australia
November 24, 2024 1:18am CST
John was seated in his local church with his wife, when she suddenly gave him a sharp poke into his ribs, and speaking out of the corner of her mouth, but still rather loudly, she said, "Get up John, and take up the collection." "Can't you see that nobody else is volunteering to do it, and the Pastor has called twice already for someone to do it?" John ignored his wife. 'If she wanted to volunteer for this, let herself getup, and do it,' he thought to himself. John also knew that there were trusted, and appointed designated people who were assigned every week to this task, so that some joker, like himself, who might pilfer some of the funds as they collected them, would not be tempted in this way. The usual people, obviously were asleep, and would eventually rise to their task, John surmised to himself, which they did, after the third call from the Pastor, from out the front, was made. (A lady, seated in the seat in front of John, and his wife, hearing John's wife's loud request, had gotten up herself to take up the collection, when John didn't move, but she was, of course, sent back to her seat, by the now attendant officers too.) Sometimes, people have no idea what they are asking, and need to be ignored, at the time of the asking, as this is the correct thing to do, and not get up half-cocked, to answer the call of someone, when they are not versed/assigned to in procedural tasks, such as this was. Society runs smoothly when the right people are doing the tasks given, and allocated, to them to do. We do not need neersays, trying to butt in, with their own half-baked attempts at doing things, not in the right way. Photo Credit: The photo used in this article was sourced from the free media site, pixabay.com There is a time for proper procedure to lord it over unqualified helpfests.
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@anya12adwi (10139)
• India
24 Nov
I have learned many new words from this post! Thank you!
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@innertalks (22346)
• Australia
24 Nov
That's good. I like to use the odd unusual word, or two, in my writings.
@anya12adwi (10139)
• India
25 Nov
@innertalks You really write good!!
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@innertalks (22346)
• Australia
25 Nov
@anya12adwi Thanks.
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@Shiva49 (26925)
• Singapore
24 Nov
I stick to what I am good at and tread alien paths with trepidation. I recall when I volunteered at a charity to offer my service. Soon I was tasked to pursue donation. I was clear there were others with better contacts to go about the job. I was good only at office work, and I politely declined. I might have succeeded in the collection, but that would entail others going after me for much bigger amounts as I worked for a wealthy person! It is wiser to be aware of our limitations while accepting others for their talents at the work they excel.
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@Shiva49 (26925)
• Singapore
25 Nov
@innertalks Charity is also a paying business for a few. They get a cut of the takings, making them aggressive in their pursuits. My son related his experience when he was just ten years old. His group was stationed at a train station to approach passengers. He was exposed to the reality of life. Most were taking evasive action, while a few appreciated their efforts, too. He topped his efforts with a generous donation from his (my) pocket!
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@Shiva49 (26925)
• Singapore
25 Nov
@Dreamerby Yes, I learned to say "no" very early in life and diplomatically too! I took care to make the reasons clear.
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@Dreamerby (6558)
• Calcutta, India
25 Nov
For the most part, it is an important skill how to say 'no' politely because that is something we need in our life very often.
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• Philippines
1 Dec
Sadly there was moment in time today that I failed to help.
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@innertalks (22346)
• Australia
1 Dec
And sadder still, those moments can never be gotten back again, once passed over.
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@Dreamerby (6558)
• Calcutta, India
25 Nov
Yeah this is indeed a good advice. Its better to let things go according to the procedure. That way societal effficiency stays put.
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@innertalks (22346)
• Australia
25 Nov
Yes, the old saying too many chiefs, and not enough Indians, comes to mind here. Those trained to do things should not be pushed aside by untrained do-gooders, trying to get into the limelight.