"Speak or Stay Silent?

@Manasha (2807)
Pondicherry, India
November 26, 2024 12:05am CST
I've been reflecting on whether it's better to stay silent and act or to speak up as part of a winning strategy. Some suggest that staying silent can draw others in and serve as an effective tactic for success. Others recommend speaking up when necessary—or even consistently—to meet the demands of winning. What about you? Do you tend to be more talkative, or are you reserved and taciturn at home or in the workplace? Personally, I believe it's best to maintain an assertive approach, backed by skills, to stay aligned with our goals and achieve them effectively.
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@grenery8 (11049)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
29 Nov
silence can sometimes speak too but if you feel like it, you can say something if you feel offended. that doesn't mean you'll get what you want but still.
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@Manasha (2807)
• Pondicherry, India
29 Nov
I understand what you're saying. Silence can indeed communicate a lot, and sometimes, it's more powerful than words. It can convey thoughts, feelings, or even boundaries. I think what you're implying is that even when silence is chosen, it can be a form of expression or a response in itself. But you're also right—just because someone expresses their feelings or their silence, it doesn’t always guarantee that they’ll get what they want. Communication, whether spoken or unspoken, is complex, and the response isn’t always what we expect. It's about how we interpret and react to it. Would you agree with that?
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@Manasha (2807)
• Pondicherry, India
3 Dec
@grenery8 Absolutely, it's that mix of spoken and unspoken communication, and it's fascinating how some people can sense things even without direct words, while others might miss those cues entirely. I think you're spot on—whether people have the "nerve" or not to address it, they often still recognize the subtle signals. It’s like an unspoken language in itself. Sometimes, silence can almost speak louder than words, but it's not always clear how it will be received, depending on the person you're interacting with. It can be tricky, but I guess that's part of what makes communication so interesting—figuring out when to speak, when to stay quiet, and how to interpret those around us. Do you find yourself using silence as a way to navigate tough situations or conversations?
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@grenery8 (11049)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
30 Nov
@Manasha it is spoken and unspoken and some have nerve or no manners ut they recognise it. i definitely agree with you
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@jstory07 (139782)
• Roseburg, Oregon
26 Nov
I do not say anything unless it is something bad going on. Than I will speak up.
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@Manasha (2807)
• Pondicherry, India
29 Nov
I get that. It sounds like you prefer to stay quiet unless something feels off or needs to be addressed. It's a way of preserving peace and only speaking up when it's really necessary. Sometimes, saying nothing can avoid unnecessary conflict, but when something is truly bothering you, that's when you’ll voice it. It can be a good approach for maintaining balance while still standing up for what matters. How do you usually decide when it’s time to speak up?
@aureategloom (11085)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
29 Nov
depends on the situation: if something bothers me, i will speak to you when we're alone. not everyone has to know our business. if you're saying bad things to me in front of others - i'm going to defend myself and not just let you walk all over me. but i generally try to stay calm and try to talk things out