What Action Should Be Done By Wife If She Caught Her Husband Cheating For A Third Time?

@larish (2234)
Philippines
November 26, 2024 1:09am CST
I have a friend who called and share to me her marital problem with her husband. She caught him cheating again for the 3rd time, this time with a girl he met in dating app. She caught him having a second phone and she was able to open their chat messages and the messages are not friendly and obviously they are really lovers. She confronted her husband and he denied it at first but eventually admitted and assure my friend that it was just a fling. My friend wanted a divorce but she was having second thoughts because of their 2 kids (age 10 and 7). My friend got married in the USA so she can file a divorce. What are your thoughts on this?
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Greenery8
@grenery8 (11194)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
29 Nov
3rd time is too much. it feels like he's mocking her. one time is too much but 2times after that. i fear, he has no respect of her or their children.
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larish
@larish (2234)
• Philippines
5 Dec
We have the same thoughts but my friend still stay in the marriage because her cheating husband retaliated that it was just a fling. It is her choice, I will just be here to be her friend.
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larish
@larish (2234)
• Philippines
6 Dec
@grenery8, yes, i agree with you 100%
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Greenery8
@grenery8 (11194)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
5 Dec
@larish of course.that is the best approach. It is vety sad that he's disrespecting her and their children like this.
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Sharon Elton
@sharonelton (29317)
• Lichfield, England
29 Nov
Kick him to the curb! It's not acceptable! He's only going to keep doing it. Those kinds of people always do. She should find someone who will be faithful.
larish
@larish (2234)
• Philippines
5 Dec
It is my friend's decision to stay. I am with you that she should leave her unfaithful husband. I just respect here choice. Anyway it's her life.
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Sharon Elton
@sharonelton (29317)
• Lichfield, England
5 Dec
@larish You can't have a proper relationship if it's not based on trust.
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larish
@larish (2234)
• Philippines
6 Dec
@sharonelton, I agree with you. Trust is very important to be in a relationship, but there are people who still stays even obvious betrayal is going on.
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