Well that was a nice surprise

@NJChicaa (120148)
United States
December 4, 2024 6:56am CST
My ex told me on Monday that he had a bad cold and that’s why I hadn’t heard from him. Yesterday evening I texted him to say I hoped he was feeling better. He said he wasn’t. I suggested he go to the walk-in clinic. He got snippy with me so I didn’t reply. He must have gotten the message. When I woke up this morning there was a text apologizing for being short and saying that he really felt awful. (Physically) Then he wished me a good day. It doesn’t sound like much I know but that is actually a big thing. He isn’t one to apologize for something like that. He usually just sounds off and then moves on. As I’ve written recently things have thawed between us which has been great. That text is one more step in our improving relations.
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askme123
@askme123 (6226)
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4 Dec
I think he wants you back
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NJ Chicaa
@NJChicaa (120148)
• United States
4 Dec
I don't know. I wouldn't say that at this point. I think it is more of a just kind of wait and see where this goes. We've been divorced for 5 years now. I'm just happy that we are in a much better place than we were a year or even 6 months ago.
askme123
@askme123 (6226)
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4 Dec
@NJChicaa ok so you know him very well.freedom to you.enjoy your worry free life
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NJ Chicaa
@NJChicaa (120148)
• United States
4 Dec
@askme123 Haha it certainly isn't worry-free.
OceanTiara
@RebeccasFarm (90474)
• Arvada, Colorado
5 Dec
Good he apologized then.
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Four Walls
@FourWalls (69038)
• United States
4 Dec
Have you seen that meme that says, “What a woman experiences in childbirth is almost as much pain as a man experiences with a head cold”? I’m glad he apologized, and I hope he’s feeling better. Hope it’s not covid, too.
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MARILYN
@Marilynda1225 (83103)
• United States
4 Dec
That certainly was a nice gesture that he apologized. Hope he feels better soon
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Judy Evans
@JudyEv (342179)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Dec
That's nice that he apologised. Some people find it very difficult to do so.
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LindaOH
@LindaOHio (181821)
• United States
5 Dec
I'm glad you're getting along so well. Maybe in the future your status will change. Did you hear about Trump's latest appointment? -- The billionaire to the NASA position? Have a good day.
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Amber
@AmbiePam (93958)
• United States
4 Dec
That’s really cool. And heck, I’m all for a guy who can apologize for being short. I don’t notice too many of those.
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Raine38
@Raine38 (12389)
• United States
4 Dec
That is a good gesture, and nice to know he is able to take some accountability for his actions. I admit I do not him very well, but given the circumstances it seems like he is doing what he can at the moment to have a good relationship with you. I wish you the best, and hope that you stay warm and healthy!
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