Still alive and dreaming...
By Toni
@toniganzon (72535)
Philippines
December 9, 2024 3:04am CST
I'n not quite sure when my last discussion was and I'm too lazy to check my profile for that. Anyways, I'm here but not sure how long. I am feeling so bad this afternoon so I decided to be here since I couldn't really work when I'm feeling that bad.
All my friends are currently busy so there's really nobody to talk to. Thank goodness for mylot still exists.
I'm feeling bad because a relative by affinity accused me of being a thief and a liar. What did I steal she said? Ham that was meant for her nephews. I don't eat pork, I haven't eaten pork for years! And I can afford to buy my own ham, why would I steal theirs? Anyway, I know myself and I know the truth. I just couldn't understand what came into her mind to tell me that.
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@toniganzon (72535)
• Philippines
10 Dec
Not a vegetarian but I just don't eat pork. We buy our Japanese rice from her to help her with her business. She had it delivered with a box. Inside the box was four ham. I didn't open the box, my husband did. Two days after she sent me a message asking me why I took the ham that was meant for her nephews. I was surprised coz I didn't. IN fact she didn't give any instruction that she sent a box with ham and to whom it was for. Her nephews don't even live in my house. A day after it was delivered to my home, his nephew came to pick up the ham but it was my husband who entertained him. I didn't. But a day following that, she sent me a message why I took the ham. Crazy woman!
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@toniganzon (72535)
• Philippines
11 Dec
@rakski Exactly. She could just have sent it to them directly.
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@rakski (126067)
• Philippines
10 Dec
@toniganzon dis she even ask her nephew?!?
Why deliver it to your home in the first place with no instructions
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Sorry to hear you have been accused. You know that you did nothing wrong.
@toniganzon (72535)
• Philippines
9 Dec
Yep and even if I told her I didn't open the box, she still insisted that I did. So it's like telling me that I'm a liar.
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@toniganzon (72535)
• Philippines
10 Dec
@LadyDuck Exactly. There's no point talking to her or even having any kind of relationship with her at all.
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@LadyDuck (472114)
• Switzerland
10 Dec
@toniganzon Very rude, she should know that you would never do something like that.
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@much2say (56057)
• Los Angeles, California
10 Dec
What a crazy accusation! It is mind boggling how some people can point fingers like that when they are completely wrong. Sorry you had to go through that. I know what you mean too about myLot being here for us - and that's why I'll keep coming back.
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@much2say (56057)
• Los Angeles, California
12 Dec
@toniganzon I'm glad. Yah, we don't need negativity like that in our lives.
I know - many old friends have left - all I can do is hope they are doing well wherever they are.
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@toniganzon (72535)
• Philippines
12 Dec
@much2say True. Social media is there for people to connect and make friends. Not to make enemies and make hate post.
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@toniganzon (72535)
• Philippines
11 Dec
Crazy indeed but I'm over it now. I also closed the door for her.
We are lucky to have mylot. I just wish old friends would come back to.
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@RebeccasFarm (90474)
• Arvada, Colorado
9 Dec
hmm someone is being mean to my Toni friend..
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@toniganzon (72535)
• Philippines
9 Dec
Yes, and I slept and now I'm over it. She can think whatever she thinks.
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@RebeccasFarm (90474)
• Arvada, Colorado
10 Dec
@toniganzon Right she can be stupid
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@toniganzon (72535)
• Philippines
10 Dec
Right and to be told a liar when I was telling the truth made me feel so bad. Anyway I already slept it off. It's yesterday's story and now I'm just keeping myself busy.
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@toniganzon (72535)
• Philippines
10 Dec
@JudyEv Right. I don't want to have any relationship with this kind of person.
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@JudyEv (342100)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Dec
@toniganzon That's all you can do. You know you're innocent.
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@toniganzon (72535)
• Philippines
10 Dec
you just made me laugh. There's no need for it though.1 person likes this
@toniganzon (72535)
• Philippines
12 Dec
@prexie I wish you really did. You made me laugh though. But iw as already calm when I read your comment. Have a nice day.
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@prexie (375)
• South Korea
11 Dec
@toniganzon atleast i made your blood pressure down ha ha
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@jobelbojel (36041)
• Philippines
9 Dec
Oh my. I am sorry about being accused. I hope you would feel better.
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@Letranknight2015 (52079)
• Philippines
10 Dec
Its hard to have a relative like that. It's hard when a family member you have is not your parents and doesn't really think of you as family. Nice to see you have here you've been since Jan.
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@toniganzon (72535)
• Philippines
11 Dec
I chose not to be her relative anymore. We are not blood related anyway.
@toniganzon (72535)
• Philippines
10 Dec
Yeah I'm ok now anyway. It's forgotten.
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@LindaOHio (181683)
• United States
9 Dec
I'm sorry you were called a thief and a liar. I hope you have a good week.
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@toniganzon (72535)
• Philippines
9 Dec
I hope so too. I have slept and I'm feeling much better now. I'm just here to check discussions and then I'll start work again.
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@toniganzon (72535)
• Philippines
9 Dec
There are a lot of people who are like that in the world, unfortunately.
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@grenery8 (11194)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
14 Dec
@toniganzon i absolutely agree with you
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