She won't leave me alone

@sallypup (61569)
Centralia, Washington
December 14, 2024 2:22pm CST
Oh sauerkraut instead of chocolate. Dang sister. I divorced you after you treated me like dog done it. I was done with you. And here you are messaging me through Facebook: coming to your town in about three hours to watch a play. Do you want a box of Mom's journals? Photo albums from her and brother? Way to smack my emotions plus its my anniversary with my hubby. I finally answered: "I will meet you at the curb. At the back of my car." I will not allow her in my house any longer. I am not a doormat. In three hours I will have deep pain to deal with. Goddess bless me.
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much2say
@much2say (55905)
• Los Angeles, California
14 Dec
I'm so sorry you are having to deal with this/her. I feel for you as I have my own sis to deal with - what a pain. Keeping you in my thoughts and I hope the meeting turns out to be smooth and quick .
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much2say
@much2say (55905)
• Los Angeles, California
15 Dec
@sallypup Boo on her - and same with my sis. I don't like family stress - I never imagined it would get to this point. I just hope yesterday's "drop off" went better than expected.
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Lenore Plassman
@sallypup (61569)
• Centralia, Washington
15 Dec
@much2say It went okay. I felt the pull of going out there but kept inside the house. Just not at all nice but it went the way it needed to go.
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Lenore Plassman
@sallypup (61569)
• Centralia, Washington
14 Dec
@much2say Thanks. This sister did some stuff that I never imagined she would.
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Marie
@Tampa_girl7 (50603)
• United States
14 Dec
I hope that you may read or see a picture that brings some joy.
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Lenore Plassman
@sallypup (61569)
• Centralia, Washington
14 Dec
@Tampa_girl7 Me, too. Both Mom and brother are no longer with us. It's hard to know.
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Marie
@Tampa_girl7 (50603)
• United States
15 Dec
@sallypup After both of my parents passed it was such an emotional struggle and draining going through their things. I totally understand.
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Lenore Plassman
@sallypup (61569)
• Centralia, Washington
15 Dec
@Tampa_girl7 Thanks. I'm not sure I can read more than I have from my Mom's journals.
snowy
@snowy22315 (181989)
• United States
15 Dec
Maybe she is sorry??
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Lenore Plassman
@sallypup (61569)
• Centralia, Washington
15 Dec
@snowy22315 This is the sister who butted in, took my other sister from low income housing and basically said the niece was not managing her Mom's dementia-health issues well enough. Sister needs to do some decent talking to niece before I will talk with her.
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marguicha
@marguicha (223720)
• Chile
14 Dec
I´m so sorry. I guess I would ask her to send anything by mail.
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Lenore Plassman
@sallypup (61569)
• Centralia, Washington
14 Dec
@marguicha Mailing all that heavy stuff would cost a bunch.
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Judy Evans
@JudyEv (341752)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 Dec
I'm sorry this is going to be so painful to you.
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Lenore Plassman
@sallypup (61569)
• Centralia, Washington
15 Dec
@JudyEv Thanks.
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LindaOH
@LindaOHio (181320)
• United States
15 Dec
I'm so sorry. Happy Anniversary. I hope it didn't spoil your day.
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Lenore Plassman
@sallypup (61569)
• Centralia, Washington
15 Dec
@LindaOhio It didn't help. Thanks for the well wishes.
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LindaOH
@LindaOHio (181320)
• United States
16 Dec
@sallypup You're very welcome.
Amber
@AmbiePam (93768)
• United States
14 Dec
I am glad you are at least getting access to those things since you have to put up with such an unpleasant interaction, to put it mildly.
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Eva James
@wolfgirl569 (107900)
• Marion, Ohio
14 Dec
Hope it went good.
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