This is why

@dfollin (25371)
United States
December 20, 2024 11:29am CST
My kids always asked me why we didn’t have a dog. Duh! We can barely pay for us to live, how can I afford a pet. When they got a bit older I let them have these cats they were given! What a mistake! They didn’t care for them as they promised and it was costing too much.
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@kaylachan (71747)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
23h
You should never consider a pet a mistake. Pets are good for teaching responsibility and accountability. Whem my mom gave me Precious, she made me totally responsible for everything and held me accountable to it. She paid for, and did the things I wasn't legally allowed to do as a minor of course )like vet visits) but she kept me part of the process by taking me along, allowing me to ask my own questions, and learn how reconize things.
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@kaylachan (71747)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
21h
@dfollin Well I feel for those animals. I had to learn to take care of my cats.
@aureategloom (11404)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
20 Dec
i'm sorry about that. my parents never let me have a dog because they thought that i didn't have enough time to take care of it and that it'll be left for them to take care of the dog, taking him out for walks and everything. dogs are much work, but they're amazing. however, i did take care of birds, fish(es) and cat
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@dfollin (25371)
• United States
22h
Right decision, but good for you taking care of of the other pets.
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• Bosnia And Herzegovina
22h
@dfollin i'm sure i'd take care of the dog too, but it made sense.
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@RasmaSandra (80708)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
20h
We always lived in apartments. My parents certainly did not want me to have a pet but I would have enjoyed at least a nice quiet kitty,
@JudyEv (342042)
• Rockingham, Australia
15h
It isn't just the food nowadays but the vaccinations and all the other costs. It's nice for kids to have pets but ....
@LindaOHio (181642)
• United States
10h
That's a pity that the cats were not cared for. Have a good weekend.
@somewitch (1417)
20 Dec
I support the rule parents must want the pets first, after all children are still too young to be responsible. Personally, I'd say before the age of 25 but I might be too extreme.
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@dfollin (25371)
• United States
23h
I kind of agree there. Even when my kids were adults I would still have to go to their homes and walk his dog every evening because he was at work!
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@AmbiePam (93874)
• United States
21h
I begged my parents for a dog. My dad was always the one who didn’t want to get one, but next to me, he was also the one who ended up loving them the most.
@popciclecold (39501)
• United States
22h
That is a good reason.
@much2say (56002)
• Los Angeles, California
21h
I grew up with dogs. But for my own family, we couldn't . . . the kids had severe fur allergies . . . even with dogs that they say have hypoallergenic fur. We ended up with parakeets here.