Emotionally independent
By Aparna Sen
@Dreamerby (6320)
Calcutta, India
December 21, 2024 11:01pm CST
In this unpredictable world, You always have to be prepared for the unforseen. Prepare for the worst and hope for the best. That's what they say. In your life, people will come and go. Some will be your fair-weather friends who will be with you till the day they need you. Few will stay forever. Its really hard to sift out these few main characters from the many extras in the stage of life.
I think we should learn to be emotionally independent to be prepared for anything. I know its hard to do that. But we will have to.
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@allknowing (139625)
• India
22 Dec
It is not easy to be emotionally independent We do need a few around us.
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@allknowing (139625)
• India
23 Dec
@Dreamerby Not some but loads in my case. I do not want that baggage around me Few are good enough
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@Dreamerby (6320)
• Calcutta, India
23 Dec
yeah its really difficult. But I gues we will have to make peace with the fact that some people will leave no matter what.
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@Dreamerby (6320)
• Calcutta, India
22 Dec
But I am scared. The very thought scares me. I pray to God to never put me in that situation. I guess we all have to learn to stay strong.
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@Aansh13 (11405)
• New Delhi, India
22 Dec
@Dreamerby
Well, God knows how to make us strong ...
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@Dreamerby (6320)
• Calcutta, India
22 Dec
Yes I guess. I have to build that trust
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@innertalks (22269)
• Australia
23 Dec
I read somewhere that if we live our life from purpose, we live a peaceful life then too.
To live from purpose, we need to prepare for the best, and hope for the best too.
Our purpose moves us past the worst, which just turns into steps to our purpose, with the right attitude.
Emotional independence might sound good, but we should move past emotional stances to the deeper connection of love, which removes all emotional nuances, and allows us to just compassionately love all, then instead.
@LindaOHio (183852)
• United States
22 Dec
You never know what life will bring you. You must always be prepared. Have a good day.
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@Dreamerby (6320)
• Calcutta, India
22 Dec
I get scared whenever that thought crosses my mind.
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@RebeccasFarm (91027)
• Arvada, Colorado
22 Dec
I totally agree with you..we simply must be reinforced for anything.
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@Dreamerby (6320)
• Calcutta, India
24 Dec
Good point. To be self-dependent is the key.
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@Shivram59 (38019)
• India
25 Dec
I'm prepared for everything. Even for the worst. I feel I can manage myself even when I have no money.
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Honestly speaking; no idea. I don't at all know how it happened. @Dreamerby (6320)
• Calcutta, India
25 Dec
wow how did you develop this mindset?
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@freelancermariagrace (28887)
• Philippines
22 Dec
Indeed, there will come a time when everyone leaves, and you are left with only yourself.
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@aureategloom (11058)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
23 Dec
what do you mean by "emotionally independent"?
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@Dreamerby (6320)
• Calcutta, India
25 Dec
oh late reply.
I mean not depend on others to satisfy your emotional needs. Like for example, you are feeling down and suddenly your good frnds arrive and you are all bubbling with energy. Or someone close to you told yu something bad, and yu becomme sad. You are giving others the power to control your emotions
@Dreamerby (6320)
• Calcutta, India
3 Jan
yeah now I think I would be better off as a child.
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@grenery8 (12323)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
3 Jan
@Dreamerby me too. less comlaining and feeling always fresh
@Dreamerby (6320)
• Calcutta, India
24 Dec
yeah we have to look for positives and negatives
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