Christmas Gift, should you say something if it wasn't"t what you asked for?

@snowy22315 (182818)
United States
December 31, 2024 9:27am CST
So, I got my missing Christmas gift, it isn't what I asked for. Why ask somebody, what they want for. Christmas just to deliver something else? I don't get it. You are e spending the money anyway, why not get something the other person wants.?She included receipts but I think they are both to stores not around here. I mean what she got wasn't bad. I was just disappointed. I will probably not say anything but not thrilled It's the thought that counts but it seems little passive aggressive.
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@NJChicaa (120406)
• United States
31 Dec
I wouldn't say anything.
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@snowy22315 (182818)
• United States
31 Dec
Yeah, probably better not to
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@Juliaacv (51718)
• Canada
31 Dec
If it were me, I wouldn't say anything. I got a new pair of crocks that are the wrong size and I will donate them and replace them without bothering my daughter-in-law. I don't want her to feel bad.
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@snowy22315 (182818)
• United States
31 Dec
I guess next year make sure she knows your size
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@snowy22315 (182818)
• United States
1 Jan
@Juliaacv It probably makes them happy to acknowledge how much your help means to them.
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@Juliaacv (51718)
• Canada
1 Jan
@snowy22315 She literally got me everything that I put on my list. And same for my hubs. It made us feel a little uncomfortable, we didn't want to make a list I mean we are not children. I asked for a Nicholas Sparks book and actually got 3 of them. Next year we are probably going away with them, and we will need to lay down ground rules that it will only be gifts for the children.
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@AmbiePam (94560)
• United States
31 Dec
I wouldn’t say anything. I’m surprised they didn’t get what you said since they did ask, but maybe something happened that prevented it.
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@snowy22315 (182818)
• United States
31 Dec
Bottom line she didn"t want to do it. However, in the future, if she doesn't plan in getting what I ask for she shouldn't"r ask
@allknowing (138347)
• India
31 Dec
I have this friend who is returning form her US holiday and has asked what she should bring for me. I just do not know.
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@snowy22315 (182818)
• United States
31 Dec
Hmm, that might be tough. You could always ask for a souvenir T shirt?
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@allknowing (138347)
• India
1 Jan
@snowy22315 The problem is I am loaded when it comes to clothes. Thanks for the suggestion.
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@LindaOHio (183044)
• United States
1 Jan
It would depend on who it was whether I would say something or not. Since she included the receipts, I wouldn't say anything. You could always send it back to the store. Call first of course. Have a Happy New Year!!!
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@snowy22315 (182818)
• United States
1 Jan
Thanks
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@LindaOHio (183044)
• United States
2 Jan
@snowy22315 You're very welcome.
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