Are we prone to greater self-improvement living in cities compared to small towns?

India
January 4, 2025 9:50am CST
Living in cities have big advantages. You have better job opportunities and there is better infrastructure and health care compared to small towns. You can also get good exposure to different people, perspectives, culture and industries. The other day I was listening to a group of college graduates speaking about self-improvement. Most of them pointed out that once we embrace the urban life, we get resourceful and competitive. We get ambitious and more self-reliant and independent. The access to a better life can promote overall well-being. At the same time, living in small towns, cannot help with lot of these as most times, the small-town life is slow. Then one of the them differed on this topic. According to him, slow pace of small town helps individuals to be mindful and has excellent emotional well-being. In fact, with less social pressures and distractions, there is better interpersonal relationships among people and a good and solid network can be built. There are lower financial stress and people in invest in lot of self-improvement activities like hobbies and education unlike the cities. I felt these are good points and kept me wondering which is universally better. So , what’s your take on the topic?
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@MrDenata (12830)
• Indonesia
5 Jan
I used to live in Big City for 13 years, and yes a lot of opportunities are available. But, these days, since covid era. It doesn't matter anymore, whether you live in a big, middle or small city. You will always find opportunities, you can always find remote jobs and work in your room.
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• India
5 Jan
Thats a great point. Post the Pandemic , the opportunities have also increased in small towns. Thanks for sharing!
@JordanLader (5318)
• Sparta, Tennessee
4 Jan
I think that self-improvement is based on you and your goals. Being in a big city can promote competition but so can a small town it just depends on the person. At the same time it can also cause you to loose yourself as well by being to competitive and too self involved that you miss what's going on around you. I don't believe it's based on the place, I believe that it's based on the person.
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• India
5 Jan
Great insight- it is actually absed on person and not location. And it is true as well. Thanks for sharing!
• Philippines
7 Jan
For me its all in the mind and its all about perspective. Its doesn't matter where we live what matter is how we envision life and how we response to it. If people have too many dreams i think the city will be their havens, and if a person envision a calmer life i think city is not a good place for them. Me? As long as my family is with me and as long as I am free to worship and talk to God I am fine. But the moment these two reason becomes absent no matter how beautiful place i am in you will see me depressed and most of the time crying.
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• India
8 Jan
Well, I totally agree with you. It is all in our minds and how we vision our opportunities and life. We need to spend life where it is meaningful and with people who care about us. Thanks for sharing!
@jobelbojel (36420)
• Philippines
5 Jan
Self-improvement can take place in small towns. I think it is peaceful compared to big city. Yes, there are more high-end establishments and infrastructure but it is more expensive to live in highly urbanized area.
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• India
5 Jan
I definitely agree on small towns being more peaceful . Guess self-improvement can happen any where. Thanks for sharing!
@jobelbojel (36420)
• Philippines
5 Jan
@RevivedWarrior Yup I second the motion, it can happen anywhere.
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@just4him (318404)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
4 Jan
I grew up in a small town and would agree with the person who advocated for small towns. It's slower, but the people are nicer and a lot friendlier. There's no rushing and no competition to grab something before someone else does. Granted, the jobs are fewer in a small town, but many people commute to the larger cities for good jobs.
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• India
5 Jan
Guess, the small town person was right when he spoke all right things about small town. Thanks for sharing!
@just4him (318404)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
6 Jan
@RevivedWarrior You're welcome.
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@grenery8 (11798)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
6 Jan
i agree with this fellow; in smaller cities, people have more composed and polite mentality and although some things are not accessible, many times people might not need it cause the life is stress free and they embrace nature or other things instead. but, sadly, less job opportunities and local politicians don't care about that.
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@grenery8 (11798)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
9 Jan
@RevivedWarrior they do just, if they could do something about offering more job opportunities, that would be great. thank you!
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• India
7 Jan
Small town people have a sense of community and they do care about people and are more sensible. Thanks for sharing!
@JudyEv (343878)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Jan
Sometimes in small towns, you get the chance to do things you wouldn't do in a bigger city. In one small town, the ladies had a fashion parade with local girls modelling the dresses and a couple others acting as comperes. We were also involved in taking photos then printing up our own postcards so there are advantages and disadvantages to both.
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• India
5 Jan
I guess self-improvement and opportunities are there everywhere. We just need to look at them properly. Thanks for sharing!
@aureategloom (11067)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
10 Jan
i think it all depends on what kind of small town it is and also the person himself/herself. of course, you have more cultural attractions in bigger cities, but it doesn't determine if one's going to visit them or improve himself. i think what matters the most are characteristics of person
• India
11 Jan
Very true- it all depends on the person and the opportunities present in small twon or the city. Thanks for sharing!