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No, I don't. I used to hate it when my mother used to compare me (unfavourably of course!) to my cousins!

Yes, you are right we should not compare a person to another person, because everyone is different from each other, and every person has their own personality.

I agree. Comparing people isn't a good thing and can lead to the destruction of friendships and relationships. Comparing everything else is always a good thing.

Personalities are different, I've learned to accept people as they are.

Thanks for the pic you have shared here. I know some fathers who compare their sons who are weak at studies with boys who have been toppers. Their own sons get depressed and begin hating themselves. They develop an inferiority complex which has a adverse effect on their whole life. My parents never compared my performance at studies with others. I have been fortunate in this regard.

i agree about comparing. every thing or person is unique.

I do compare but it’s more of looking at warning signs from past relationship and worrying about current ones for instance.

I prefer to compare the quality of items, the difference is not a problem for me as long as we live comfortably and there is no hostility.

Everyone's DNA is different

Yes I always compare things. Comparing should not make us jealous of others

No not friends but I do compare prices lol I love that pic Judy.

I never compare my friends, Each one is different.

I am sure many people cannot resist comparing people... in the privacy of their own home or pub!

You're right. We should rejoice in the differences that make our friends special. Have a great day.

I One Hundred Percent Agree. It is really not a good one to compare a person to another, specially when you are comparing them face to face and with lots of people listening, it feels like very humiliating, and degrading to a child moral that affects their views and self esteem as they grow up. Same with an adult. Thank you for this post, I hope this will be a reminder for everyone even if they are joking around it really hits different to the people they are comparing with.

I try not to compare people. It’s inevitable that we compare things, though…”this album isn’t as good as their last album;” “I like this movie better than the last one she was in;” “that doctor isn’t as nice as my other one,” etc.

I do agree we should not compare with others. Sometimes , things may look smiling and great whereas it could be tough with their lives. Although I do not compare my lives with my known people and friends , at times my brain does compare my life with them especially during tough times. I do not envy them at all but I pity my personal and professional life at times. There are times, I felt like hiding my face from others but now I am like fine this is what I am and I need to live with that. I had my share of traumas in life and post same , largely kept things to myself. And i do agree with you-the only things we should compare are the quality and prices of products in the market. Take care!