Do you trust the promises of a person who drinks too much?
By Diana
@dya80dya (36960)
January 15, 2025 11:12am CST
My future sister-in-law came here during Christmas. She drank a lot and she was crying for hours. She promised she would help me and said she loved me. She knows about my situation, she knows about my panic attacks. Today I woke up again with a panic attack. When I have some problems at home my body thinks I am in danger and panic attacks appear. And I wanted to ask for help because I feel I won't last long. I remembered about my brother's girlfriend and I sent her a friend request yesterday. She ignored me. So she loved me only when she was drunk? I believed her when she gave me her phone number. She offered to help me several times. She asked how can she help me. The next day she ignored me like nothing happened. And I trusted her. She even asked when she was drunk if I trusted her. I said yes. I wonder if I should trust her promises when she was so drunk. I thought she was honest, but I don't know what to think now. She even said to contact her if I need her. Can I trust her promises?
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5 responses
@RasmaSandra (83484)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
15 Jan
I think she has too many problems of her own to be able to help you, When I have had my worst times with my anxiety a bit of Valerian Root drops have helped me.
@RevivedWarrior (3733)
• India
16 Jan
Come on Diana! You cannot be naive to her. She is just using you. She has drinking issues and if she was to be trusted , why should she avoid you. She should have done things to help you around. Besides , from whatever you have mentioned here , she seems to have lot of issues. I doubt it would be you who would have to help her around rather than you looking for her support. My suggestion is to look for alternatives because sooner or later you would need it. A person who can be trusted would never have you to ask twice . They will ensure they are there with you all the time. Take care!
