why do people cheat ?

@Rinto998 (117)
Tangerang, Indonesia
January 21, 2025 10:50pm CST
Infidelity does not only occur in married couples, but is also often experienced in dating relationships. Usually, if your partner is having an affair, there will be a change in attitude and behavior. Starting from often busying yourself with your cell phone, often getting annoyed or angry for no reason, to often lying. In this case, I think there are various reasons why people cheat in relationships. Cheating can occur due to a lack of emotional attachment to your partner, not being able to set social boundaries with other people, or because of arguments with your partner. Not only that, other reasons can also come from childhood trauma to sexual addiction. So why do you think people cheat? Are you the perpetrator of cheating or are you the victim of cheating ?
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@ekta54 (975)
• Delhi, India
22 Jan
I am neither perpetrator nor a victim.
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@ekta54 (975)
• Delhi, India
22 Jan
@Rinto998 yes...there is a friend of mine and her boyfriend cheated on her.
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@Rinto998 (117)
• Tangerang, Indonesia
22 Jan
@ekta54 So annoyed, Can you give him some advice that it's not good ?
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@Rinto998 (117)
• Tangerang, Indonesia
22 Jan
Ohh I'm glad to hear that you are neither the perpetrator nor the victim of cheating :) By the way, is there cheating around you ?
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@arunima25 (88319)
• Bangalore, India
22 Jan
Thankfully I am neither a perpetrator or a victim. Cheating has existed ever since humankind existed. Though nothing justifies infidelity, we can't ignore the fact that it exists. I would say that it's the lack of communication or not having the attitude to respect the sanctity and boundary of a relationship that one goes for cheating.
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@Rinto998 (117)
• Tangerang, Indonesia
22 Jan
Ohh I'm glad to hear that you are neither the perpetrator nor the victim of cheating :) It's true that many people cheat because they lack communication or don't respect each other. By the way, is there cheating around you ?
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@arunima25 (88319)
• Bangalore, India
22 Jan
@Rinto998 Yes, I know of a couple of cases around me in friends and family.
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@Rinto998 (117)
• Tangerang, Indonesia
22 Jan
@arunima25 So annoyed, Can you give him some advice that it's not good ??
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@jstory07 (141226)
• Roseburg, Oregon
22 Jan
And if you cheat on your partner or friend once you will do it again.
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@Rinto998 (117)
• Tangerang, Indonesia
22 Jan
Yes, that's right, in my opinion cheating is not a disease but a trait that is difficult to change.
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@grenery8 (12188)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
25 Jan
i think it's a coward thing to do and insecure. if you don't like someone anymore, tell them, don't cheat them and humiliate them. like hugh jackman did.
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@grenery8 (12188)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
27 Jan
@Rinto998 people should make things easier for themselves
@Rinto998 (117)
• Tangerang, Indonesia
26 Jan
Yes, thats absolutely cowardly
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