A Difficult Offer to Refuse
By Amber
@AmbiePam (96315)
United States
January 25, 2025 1:23pm CST
My sister and her family asked if I wanted to join them on their trip to Peppa Pig Amusement Park in Dallas (Texas). I thanked them, but said I didn’t have the money. They said since my birthday was coming up (March) they’d pay for it. I was very appreciative, but said I just didn’t think I’d be up for it.
I hope I didn’t hurt their feelings, and seeing the kids enjoy Peppa Pig rides would be fun, but I kinda of need to save up my energy. I love Dallas though. Honestly, it’s going to be such a quick trip that it seems to be a long car ride (those with excessive back pain get me) for such a short stay (3 days). Kids are resilient, but Aunt Amber is not. 

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@snowy22315 (185992)
• United States
25 Jan
It was nice of them to ask. However, you know what and what you are not comfortable with Tell sis to take lots of pics and videos
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@GardenGerty (162382)
• United States
26 Jan
You love the kids and they love you but for the drive, nope, not worth it. I hope no one had hurt feelings over it.
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@much2say (57292)
• Los Angeles, California
25 Jan
I didn't even know there was actually an amusement park dedicated to Peppa Pig! It's nice they wanted to include you, but yah, I totally get your reasoning to not go. The long car ride and even to just hang out in an amusement park with all that walking can be too much.
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@MarieCoyle (41384)
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25 Jan
It does sound like a lot of fun, but you know your limits. Maybe your sister can plan something fun for you to be included fyjuat a day trip sometime. Heck, just say that to her…sometimes I don’t think people realize that some of us can’t do certain things due to physical limitations. A reminder won’t hurt! 

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@MarieCoyle (41384)
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26 Jan
@AmbiePam
I know I get really tired and hurting during long car rides, too. It helps if I’m the driver at times, then I stop more often!!
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@allknowing (141644)
• India
25 Jan
No point in going when you know you will have issues with your health
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@Tampa_girl7 (51772)
• United States
25 Jan
Still it was sweet of them to ask you.

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@wolfgirl569 (112380)
• Marion, Ohio
26 Jan
I understand not wanting to ride that far
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@RasmaSandra (82887)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
25 Jan
At least they thought of you and wanted to include you, I agree about the short stay, I think that any stay anywhere should be at least a week-long or more,
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@Marilynda1225 (83905)
• United States
25 Jan
Its disappointing that you had to pass on that vacation but I certainly understand how hard it can be for a long car ride. Hugs for Aunt Amber

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@mayka123 (16847)
• India
26 Jan
That’s so sweet of your sister and her family to offer! I can understand why they’d want you to join, especially for a fun trip like that. But I totally get what you mean about needing to save your energy—it’s important to listen to your body, especially when you have back pain. A long car ride and a quick trip could be exhausting, and it sounds like you made the right call for your own well-being.
I’m sure your sister understands, and I’m sure the kids will have a blast, but I bet they’ll appreciate you keeping yourself healthy so you’re there for them in the future, too. Maybe you can plan a trip with them when it’s a bit more comfortable for you. Either way, Dallas must be so fun to visit when you’re up for it!
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@AmbiePam (96315)
• United States
26 Jan
We actually do have a trip planned in September, a cruise to Canada. I don’t really get to travel so it’s a big deal. That’s a week long thing so I don’t feel like it will be a rushed trip. Someday though, I do want to go to Dallas with them.
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@xstitcher (33405)
• Petaluma, California
26 Jan
Aw...didn't know there was such a place. My nephews used to watch Peppa Pig when they were little.
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@1creekgirl (42640)
• United States
26 Jan
They love you very much, so I feel sure they'll understand. Don't feel guilty about not being able to go.
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@thislittlepennyearns (63772)
• Defuniak Springs, Florida
27 Jan
We we're talking about going to Kentucky, and with the pain I've been in. I just don't know if I'm up for it right now.
I hate Texas, but for other reasons. LOL.
GET your phone fixed I miss you,.
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@thislittlepennyearns (63772)
• Defuniak Springs, Florida
28 Jan
@AmbiePam I don't think we are going to go till later in the year.
We wanted the kids to see snow, and we got snow here. SO we dodge dtha bullet.
I thin we are going to Biloxi after Valentines day.
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