I have been sad today.
By marguicha
@marguicha (225259)
Chile
February 1, 2025 12:22pm CST
Yesterday, when I was coming back for buying my meds, I saw several people in my neighbor´s garden. So I said hello with my hand and my neighbor´s son came to say hello to me and told me that Miguel, my neighbor, has died last night.
Miguel has helped me a lot all these years. And 2 years ago, when I had the kitchen fire, I called Noni, his wife. She called the firemen and told me that Miguel had suffered a stroke and was learning to walk and talk again.
These two years I have thought a lot about them but Noni told me that Miguel did not want anyone to know about what had happened to him. So I never called.
Last night, after Camila and her friend left, I checked online and there was a place where you could write something if you so wished. I did.
Miguel was 10 years younger than me. It is a shame that the best people usually die younger. 


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@snowy22315 (186167)
• United States
1 Feb
Aww so sorry. I am sure your words will help the survivors.
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@marguicha (225259)
• Chile
1 Feb
I didn´t dare go yesterday to say anything to them as there were many people I did not know. But I hope theat they will read my words later on.
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@marguicha (225259)
• Chile
1 Feb
It is. He was a hardworking man and very much a family man.
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@DaddyEvil (142749)
• United States
1 Feb
I'm sorry for your loss.
I'm sure his family appreciate your kindness over the years and what you wrote online.

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@marguicha (225259)
• Chile
1 Feb
He always helped me when I needed him. Even yesterday, his son had some nice words for me.
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@marguicha (225259)
• Chile
2 Feb
@DaddyEvil True. And his son is as nice as he was.
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@DaddyEvil (142749)
• United States
1 Feb
@marguicha Good neighbors and friends are like that. Always offering to help.
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@Marilynda1225 (83923)
• United States
1 Feb
That is so sad that you found out about your neighbor Miguel. Im sure the family will appreciate your words
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@GardenGerty (162410)
• United States
2 Feb
So sorry for this sudden loss. No wonder you felt sad.
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@marguicha (225259)
• Chile
2 Feb
I should have called Noni before, maybe. But I did not want to intrude.
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@much2say (57325)
• Los Angeles, California
3 Feb
@marguicha I've seen both - the notebooks and the online ones. At least in doing it online, you can take your time and write exactly how you feel on your own time.
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@kaylachan (75727)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
1 Feb
Sorry to hear about the loss. I'm glad he lived as long as he had.
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@marguicha (225259)
• Chile
1 Feb
I also worry about his wife although she is a strong woman.
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@kaylachan (75727)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
2 Feb
@marguicha Loss is never easy. No matter who you are.
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@rakski (133781)
• Philippines
2 Feb
@marguicha no one will be prepared for news like that
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@Deepizzaguy (107344)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
1 Feb
Sorry to learn about the loss of life of your neighbor losing his life last night.
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@Deepizzaguy (107344)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
2 Feb
@marguicha I am in agreement with you.
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@celticeagle (172222)
• Boise, Idaho
2 Feb
Miguel sounds like quite the gentleman. Sorry to hear of his passing.
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@marguicha (225259)
• Chile
2 Feb
He was one of the old neighbors, before those new ones that don´t even say hello when coming nearby.
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@allknowing (141788)
• India
2 Feb
We all go through these sad days and that is what life is all about
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@RasmaSandra (82931)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
1 Feb
So sorry to hear this, It is always hardest on those left behind, I wonder if they'll sell the house,
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@marguicha (225259)
• Chile
2 Feb
It will depend on the widow and her 2 chidren, I suppose. The land will be very expensive as it is a lot bigger than my own plot.
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@marguicha (225259)
• Chile
2 Feb
He was my only near friend here until my parents nouse was sold.
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