Life is boring now.

In life , there are certain things in our control and some things are not. Focus on things we can do and for rest we can pray. With kids , you can talk to them like a father and friend and understand their challenges. Build a better relationship with them and do what you can . Things will turn well. And for money , everyone are short of money and well you got to see if there are ways to invest and grow your money and see if there are ways you can bring more revenue even after retirement. That will help you to deal with money issues long term. Instead of feeling victimized , work on the problems and solve. Good Luck!

Sanjeev my friend, I know how you are speaking about..it seems the same here, very downcast and no hope..but surely something..some good things may happen. I am sorry. I understand the hardship well..it is hard to accept.

This is a negative way to look at life

I hope you do good in your job before you retire.

I'm sorry things are looking bleak at the moment. Hopefully the kids will come to their senses. There is only so much a parent can do. I do hope things improve for you.

Sorry to hear about that. I hope everything works out for you but do not stress yourself for the things that you cannot control

Sorry you are feeling pessimistic about your future. Would you maybe be able to find some tutoring for the kids, so they can do better in school? As for your job, maybe ask some of your co workers how they can cope with your demanding boss.

I think in some ways my situation is similar to yours. I think in classes above 9th, there are a lot of challenges. Often kids are fine talent wise but undue pressures of Board exams and competitions can sometimes present their own challenge. I think the key is to ride through and not lose patience. Inflation and increased expenses challenge a lot especially when we are 40 / 45 plus. And if I talk about myself, there are certain relationship challenges with some close relatives which I cannot elaborate but which do sometimes put me in stress and test my patience too. And well, often the income tax at source job doing folks like us in India who face the biggest challenges. Are you trying for some side work during the weekends?

I can understand how you feel. I hope you can find something that can earn you more and can save enough or to have start up business.

That sounds emotional just pray God to intervene the attitude of your kids to have the right focus in their studies. Old age is inevitable, make sure you already have your retirement plans.

Life is still beautiful and there are still many things to be thankful for. Let's keep going brother. We got this!

Do you have any hobbies that you find fulfilling?