Off to See My Mammy
By Jim Bauer
@porwest (95999)
United States
February 13, 2025 9:10am CST
For the record, I have never once ever called my mom my mammy, just to be clear. But I thought it was a fun little play on words for a catchy little title. But I plan on paying her a visit today. Something I have decided to do on a more regular basis to help my sister out a bit with her care.
I've set aside at least three days a week to do this. I can help her with some things around the house, help her with some meal prep and cooking, and take her around town just to get her some fresh air and have a change of scenery.
Maybe it's a short trip to the grocery store, or we'll walk around Goodwill or Savers a bit. Maybe some days we'll go out for some lunch.
Today I am thinking about taking her to the bowling alley where they have some slot machines set up, and maybe do a little gambling with her. It's something she loves to do, and I am sure she'd have some fun with it.
What are your plans for today?
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@lilacskies (3766)
• United States
13 Feb
No plans. Just getting some rest. I hope you have a lovely time with your mother!
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@porwest (95999)
• United States
13 Feb
@lilacskies Yeah, we did actually. Didn't find anything, but it was fun just to look at the junk.
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@lilacskies (3766)
• United States
13 Feb
@porwest You are welcome. That's wonderful. I am very happy for you both. Did you end up going to Goodwill? I haven't been there in ages.
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@FourWalls (71430)
• United States
13 Feb
I’ve finished lunch and I’m going to the store for some yogurt and decaf tea. Then I’ll go home and set my garbage out. BIG EXCITING life I live!
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@1creekgirl (42400)
• United States
13 Feb
You are a really good son. I'm sure your mom will enjoy being with you.
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@porwest (95999)
• United States
13 Feb
Well, we didn't do any bowling, but we did do some gambling. They have slot machines at the bowling alley, can you believe it? Of course, around here they are bars, gas stations...practically everywhere. Unfortunately, both her and my bowling days are over. I have a bad back and she walks with a cane, so that's out. But it was a really fun day, and she enjoyed herself, and that's all that matters.
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@RevivedWarrior (3524)
• India
13 Feb
That sounds like a wonderful way to spend time with your mom! Keeping aside three days a week to ensure she gets all the support and help she need is a thoughtful gesture – not just for her and but also for your sister. The little trips, be it grocery shopping or a stroll, will definitely mean a lot for her. I am sure she will love the trip to the bowling alley. Hope you both have a fantastic time together and have a winning streak there. I am proud to have you as my virtual friend Jim. Really proud of you. As for my plans for today , nothing exciting as it is working day for me . Enjoy your time with your mom!
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@porwest (95999)
• United States
13 Feb
Thank you very much for your kind words. It turned out perfect and she had a really good time. In life it's sometimes the small things that mean the most, and getting her out of the house a bit and able to move around and do something besides vegetate and stare at the same four walls all day was a nice change of pace for her.
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@DaddyEvil (141578)
• United States
13 Feb
I hope you have good visits with your mom. And any time you spend with her I'm sure she'll enjoy. Moms get lonely, too.
We aren't doing anything today. It's 17F and I don't want to go outside. It will still be cold tomorrow but we need to do some errands around town. Right now it's snowing again.
@JudyEv (346283)
• Rockingham, Australia
14 Feb
Those are really good ideas. It doesn't have to be much to satisfy a mother as long as you're there with them.
@lovebuglena (45459)
• Staten Island, New York
14 Feb
Gambling at a bowling alley? Haven’t seen that where I live. Are the slots fun at least?
Nice that you have time to spend with your mom. I’m sure she appreciates it.
@Beestring (14917)
• Hong Kong
13 Feb
I'm sure your mammy appreciates your visit. Yeah, have some fun with her.
These days, I have a friend from US visiting HK. She has not come back in the last 10 years. HK has changed a lot. I'm showing her around and enjoy different types of cuisines.
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