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@jstory07 (141830)
Roseburg, Oregon
February 15, 2025 1:03am CST
Do you ever wonder what if this had happened. And that had happened. Or the other thing happened. Would everything be different than it is now. What if your parents never met. Does that mean you would have never been born. So there would never be you. Or would you have been some one else and you would still be here. Not knowing that you were suppose to be someone else. But instead you are not that person. What if you were born later and you are not really as old as you are because you were not born than. Did I give you something weird to think about?
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@grenery8 (13376)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
17 Feb
when we are not satisfied with some situations, we tend to analyze things.
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@jstory07 (141830)
• Roseburg, Oregon
13h
Yes that is so true.
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@grenery8 (13376)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
8h
@jstory07 i'm one of those people but by time, we need to let it go
@JudyEv (346284)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Feb
Yes, you did! Very weird indeed!
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@jstory07 (141830)
• Roseburg, Oregon
16 Feb
I like being weird.
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@JudyEv (346284)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Feb
@jstory07 We definitely need more of the 'good' type of weird!
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@much2say (57173)
• Los Angeles, California
15 Feb
The what-ifs. Yep. I think I wondered more about that in my younger days though - about why I am the way I am. These days I think I have just accepted and focus on how we move forward from here.
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@much2say (57173)
• Los Angeles, California
15 Feb
@jstory07 Life can go in all kinds of directions . .
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@jstory07 (141830)
• Roseburg, Oregon
15 Feb
Yes we always have to move forward which can be good or bad.
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@id_peace (14896)
• Singapore
15 Feb
I did had thought like that before. I also think about what if as a mortal, I am just a day soul. Every day, my soul will die, a new soul will take over inheriting the same memory so I am still the same person or am I a different person?
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@id_peace (14896)
• Singapore
16 Feb
@jstory07 Indeed these are the silly things that put me in bed without the ability to sleep.
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@jstory07 (141830)
• Roseburg, Oregon
16 Feb
It does make you wonder.
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@rakski (132556)
• Philippines
16 Feb
yes, of course. My youngest just asked me last week what if I had a third child, meaning younger than him. So I gave him all the possibilities of what could happen if that were the case. He later on said that it is good I did not have a third child.
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@jstory07 (141830)
• Roseburg, Oregon
16 Feb
He would have not been the baby anymore.
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@rakski (132556)
• Philippines
16 Feb
@jstory07 true!!! and I think that struck him the most. I said he would be taking care of the younger one if I had a younger child.
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@lilacskies (3736)
• United States
15 Feb
All the time. I think of all the roads I never took and all the paths I could've walked on. My life would've been totally different if I made different choices. I think about them all often. It can be a torturous experience if I obsess over it.
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@jstory07 (141830)
• Roseburg, Oregon
15 Feb
Yes it could be bad if we over obsess over it.
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• United States
15 Feb
@jstory07 I try not to think too much about it.
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@snowy22315 (185246)
• United States
15 Feb
I don't spend too much time thinking about things like that. The past is the past, and the future hasn't happened yet. Other than what lessons maybe I have learned along the way, I don't think about the past too much.
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@jstory07 (141830)
• Roseburg, Oregon
15 Feb
You just like to move forward. That is good.
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@allknowing (140788)
• India
15 Feb
Ifs and buts only make us fantacise.
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@jstory07 (141830)
• Roseburg, Oregon
15 Feb
Which can be good sometimes.
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@RebeccasFarm (92040)
• Arvada, Colorado
16 Feb
I think about this all the time now..I should never have been born. Simple.
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@jstory07 (141830)
• Roseburg, Oregon
13h
God wanted you to be born.
@Tampa_girl7 (51401)
• United States
15 Feb
That would definitely be weird.
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@jstory07 (141830)
• Roseburg, Oregon
16 Feb
Yes it would be.
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@cacay1 (84183)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
8h
That's weird hehe. I have not thought of something like that he he.
@innertalks (22334)
• Australia
18 Feb
I wonder about these things constantly. What if I had been born blind, or to different parents, and so had inherited different starting influences. I might have been a completely different person. Life does seem to stitch itself together though, and so perhaps, my life, could not really have been stitched up in any other way, as God's knitting needles threaded me as he wanted it to be threaded, I guess too. I ended up as a pair of socks then, not as a jumper, because God stitched me up in that way.....
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@jstory07 (141830)
• Roseburg, Oregon
13h
I like the way that you look at things.
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@hillhjill (23788)
• United States
15 Feb
Stuff like that always runs through my head, like what if I was with her when she crashed.. Would I still be here etc...
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@jstory07 (141830)
• Roseburg, Oregon
15 Feb
It really does make you wonder. .
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