My hat is off to the first responders. Let's not ever forget what they do.
By Marie Coyle
@MarieCoyle (41060)
February 18, 2025 11:03am CST
**I tried to avoid being overly graphic.
Do you ever wonder how some of these first responders manage to do what they do?
Yes, I realize they have the jobs they have--Paramedic, EMT, law enforcement, firemen (or firewomen), accident investigators, and clean-up crews...they have a HARD job.
All of these plane crashes/incidents/whatever you want to call them, brought back some memories. The biggest one I recall, I was still pretty young, but it was so terrible--American Airlines Flight 191, from Chicago O'Hare to Los Angeles. An engine detached from the wing during takeoff, and it crashed on the runway. Everyone on board was killed, and two people on the ground, for a total of 273 people. The crash site bordered the nearby cities of Des Plaines, IL. and Mt. Prospect, IL. and involved many first responders from the entire area. It burned for a long, long time--it was fully loaded with 21,000 gallons of fuel for the trip.
My cousin was then a 3-year fireman in Des Plaines and was called to this immediately. He is a strong and stable fellow and loved his job--he is retired now(he became the fire chief after a few more years.) But oh, that accident...the trauma from that was truly terrible for him, and for all the first responders. Forgive me here...but the firemen were there for a long time, trying to control such a big fire with all of that fuel everywhere. Yes, he had seen death and burned bodies before, but not on this level. Many of the bodies were (sorry) in pieces, and they would get part of the fire out only to have to keep going back and blasting more water on it all...and seeing it all over and over.
This happened in May of 1979. Not much was available for help for the first responders then, in the way of helping them sort it all out in their heads with what all they have seen. You were basically told to take a little time, screw your head back on, shake it off, and move forward. Sound easy? Not after a disaster like this.
Even though I feel mental health care is far from perfect, at least now they do see to it that the opportunity is there for the first responders after such terrible accidents. Nothing can erase what they've seen and experienced, I know.
I simply feel like yes, they are out and about, doing their jobs. But there are many people who don't ever realize how much some of these people do, how hard it can be, and what they actually see.
Not many people can do what some of these people do.
I have always had a lot of respect for first responders. Today, I thought of the state of our country, all the things we hear about/go through/read about, and the work these people do. There is a National First Responder's Day every October 28th, but it is not really a well known fact.
If you know a first responder, you know all of this...just a reminder for us all, that what they do is so important.
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@TheHorse (223389)
• Walnut Creek, California
18 Feb
I admire them as well. And yes I remember the crash of Flight 191. I had driven from Chicago and was visiting my girl friend in Iowa. Some of the people on that plane had been at a conference that my step-mom (in Chicago) was at.
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@MarieCoyle (41060)
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19 Feb
They really do. Sure, some calls are routine and not so bad, but it's the bad ones that stick in their minds. Not sure if I could do it.
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@MarieCoyle (41060)
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18 Feb
He overcame it, but some never do. For years afterwards, when people asked him about it(I was not one of those people!) he just shook his head and said he didn’t want to talk about it.
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@wolfgirl569 (111842)
• Marion, Ohio
18 Feb
They have very tough jobs. Many people could not do what they do and stay sane
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@MarieCoyle (41060)
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18 Feb
No, they certainly couldn’t. Very stressful and often heartbreaking.
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@RasmaSandra (82591)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
18 Feb
They have to be strong, brave, and always quick thinking,
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@MarieCoyle (41060)
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18 Feb
They have to be good with people,and personable as well. All while they are trying to do their job and keep people alive!
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@Dena91 (16827)
• United States
19 Feb
I admire those who can do these jobs for a long time. I was a EMT for about 5 years, which is about the average amount most hang with it. I loved the job, but we hit a period of some very terrible calls involving children and that really affected me.
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@MarieCoyle (41060)
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19 Feb
Oh, Dena. I just can't imagine, it surely must really wrench at the heart, Five years would be a long time.
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@snowy22315 (185436)
• United States
18 Feb
I am sure the effects were truly horrifying and would last for a long time afterwards. I used to have an online buddy who was a train conductor. He had occasions where some people were on the tracks either by choice or accident, and were killed. He had PTSD from those incidents, and would see flashbacks fairly often.
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@FourWalls (71540)
• United States
18 Feb
Indeed. That was a horrible crash. They call it PTSD now, but back then it was “battle fatigue” or “shell shock.” A friend of mine’s dad was a medic in World War II during the final days of the campaign in Europe. He was attached to the 3rd Army, which liberated one of the concentration camps. She said her dad NEVER spoke about what he saw, but would cry at the drop of a hat…which was very unusual for men back in the 50s and 60s (men weren’t “supposed to cry” back then, you may remember).
God bless them all.
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@MarieCoyle (41060)
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18 Feb
Oh, you are right. Shell shocked was the term I remember.
My grandfathers were both in WWI....they both had young siblings and widowed mothers, when they returned from the war, they worked to support the family until the kids grew older. Then, they got married and started their own families. One grandfather didn't see a lot of action, he helped to train soldiers for battle. The other saw all the action anyone could see and still survive, and he suffered from mustard gas poisoning his entire life. My own Dad was in Korea. He couldn't talk much about what he went through for years. The last few years of his life, he told me a lot about it, he said it felt really good to finally share some of it with me, so I was glad he did that.
No, men were not ever supposed to cry. The only acceptable excuse was if you lost a very close family member, and then it could only be for a moment or two...such a foolish thing to put people through. Cry and get it all out, it helps in the end.
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@MarieCoyle (41060)
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18 Feb
They don't all make big money, either, doing what they do. For the most part, many of them all seem to have had a calling of some sort, and always wanted to be what they chose to do. Regardless of why, they deserve a lot better than they get, and so do soldiers, for that matter.
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