Planning to visit a cousin

@pahak627 (5068)
Philippines
February 24, 2025 5:46pm CST
My cousin in Cavite and I agreed to visit our cousin in Laguna. We also agreed that it would be on a Thursday since on Saturday, she will pick up her granddaughter at the UP Campus, Los Banos. However, it seems that I'm not anymore interested with this set-up. I'm planning to tell her about the change in my mind. Do you also experience having an agreement with someone and change? I'm hesitant to tell her yet because I don't want to make her feel bad. She already expected what we agreed upon.
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@lilacskies (6893)
• United States
24 Feb
No, because I'm too much of a coward to tell someone I changed my mind. I don't have any friends so there's really no one for me to hang out with anyway.
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@pahak627 (5068)
• Philippines
25 Feb
We are the same, maybe I'm a coward when it comes to this. I just don't want that my cousin will be sad knowing that I have a change in mind. But I'll try to tell her.
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• United States
25 Feb
@pahak627 Please keep us updated. I'm curious about how it goes. I hope she doesn't feel too upset about it.
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@pahak627 (5068)
• Philippines
25 Feb
@lilacskies I haven't told her yet. We seldom chat though I always see her online. I guess, she's busy on something more important. I'll try to message her one of these days or I'll just visit when I have time.
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@DaddyEvil (144043)
• United States
25 Feb
If I change my mind, I just tell the other person that I can't make the planned activity. They will understand that other things can come up so plans change.
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@pahak627 (5068)
• Philippines
25 Feb
That is the best that I should do. I'll try to follow what you do.
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@DaddyEvil (144043)
• United States
25 Feb
@pahak627 Good luck!
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@jstory07 (142625)
• Roseburg, Oregon
25 Feb
I hope your cousin will understand.
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@pahak627 (5068)
• Philippines
25 Feb
Thank you. I'll really try to tell her about my change of mind, and I hope she will not be sad about this.
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@grenery8 (14947)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
26 Feb
you can hesitate but truth needs to be told cause, it gets harder by time.