I Have Canceled The Marriage

@Shivram59 (39318)
India
March 2, 2025 5:05pm CST
It is too late for me to go to bed. But what could I do?? I ha to recieve all the calls.from my friends. The calls were made by my friends who live in the town where the girl's family live. They have informed me that the girl doesn't drunk: but is of a very aggressive nature Her elder sister had eloped with her boyfriend and they both got married. Their parents often fell out with each other.. Their behaviour is not good.The atmosphere in the home is toxic. That's enough for me to cancel the marriage and look for another girl. Now my parents are sleep. I'll tell them all this to them tomorrow morning. Now I have to shoulder a new responsibility. I will now look for Another suitable boy for my brother.. Hope you understand.
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rakski
@rakski (133516)
• Philippines
12h
Is it okay for your parents to cancel the marriage and not informing your parents first?
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jaishankar
@Shivram59 (39318)
• India
4h
They were asleep. I have informed them today morning. They agree with me; too.
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jaishankar
@Shivram59 (39318)
• India
3h
My parents,were asleep when one of my friends living in that neighborhood called me. I have,already informed my parents. They supported me.
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lilacskies
@lilacskies (7274)
• United States
12h
You made the right decision. The girl could have a secret boyfriend and elope like her older sister. You just never know with people.
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jaishankar
@Shivram59 (39318)
• India
2h
You are right. Children brought up in such families can have,secret relations. We don't like to invitee problems in our,family. Nobody does. By the way; how are you today??
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Sanjeev
@sjvg1976 (41985)
• Delhi, India
4h
That's a good decision, hope you get a right match for your brother soon.
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Sanjeev
@sjvg1976 (41985)
• Delhi, India
3h
@Shivram59 It is not easy to call it off. It happened with my younger brother too. Before 4-5 days when there was a ring ceremony he told that he won't marry this girl as he is not willing to tie a knot with her. I don't know why he said this. We had to call all the relatives and has to persuade girl's family for it.
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jaishankar
@Shivram59 (39318)
• India
3h
Thanks; my friend. I have called my relatives and friends to inform me of the,girls and their families there. It will take me,some time.
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jaishankar
@Shivram59 (39318)
• India
2h
@sjvg1976 That must have very difficult. Your brother must have a different choice. It becomes even more difficult to cancel a marriage at such advance,stage.
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DE
@DaddyEvil (142412)
• United States
11h
I'm sure you made the right decision. And I'm sure you'll find a wonderful girl for your brother to marry.
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Fleur
@Fleura (31111)
• United Kingdom
2h
It sounds as though you made the right choice. There must be plenty of suitable women out there! There is no need to rush, take time to find a good one.
Daniel
@Danielclark691 (1360)
•
15h
Sounds chaotic. all the best
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jaishankar
@Shivram59 (39318)
• India
3h
It's chaotic; but it,happens in marriages. You have to face some problems.
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