Being your best self, must include growing that best self into a better best self too

Our soul self is our real self
@innertalks (22508)
Australia
March 26, 2025 7:46pm CST
"There is but one cause of human failure. And that is man's lack of faith in his true Self." William James, an American philosopher, (1842 to 1910) said this. It sort of rings true, in some ways, but it might be more true to say, these days, that man doesn't even know that he has got a true self to be, or to have faith in. He thinks that his lesser self, his mind/body self, is the only self that he is. "You can never be more than who you areā€”but you can become more aware of who you are." Unknown author. If this was true, though, what is the point of our living here, trying to be our best self, by improving ourselves continually, from our current self? But this author is talking about our true self, which is as it is, and not our body/mind self, which can be improved. God created us with all that we need in us to live our best life as us, but we often neglect being this created self, by our creating a pseudo, false, lesser self of parts of us only, the mind, ego self, for example, ignoring our soul self, our heart self, our spirit self, or in other words, our higher self, that God created us to be, but which we are ignoring by our being only a small shadow of this self, by mind/body living only. But the author is perhaps wrong here, as we can grow who we currently are into a greater soul self too. That is the point of life, to grow, nurture, and increase in our ability to love, by accepting guidance from God, and from other souls too, in our lives. We then also grow in wisdom, and in the knowledge of truth, too. We can be greater that who we are, and this is the purpose of our life here. Photo Credit: The photo used in this article was sourced from the free media site, pixabay.com Our soul self is our real self.
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@jstory07 (142807)
• Roseburg, Oregon
27 Mar
Just be the be4st self that you cam be. That is all that we can do.
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@innertalks (22508)
• Australia
27 Mar
That is true of most of us, but some of us are trying to always improve on that best self, and it should be a moving target, getting better every day. Our best self should not be defined by ourselves though, as we might be being fooled into thinking that we are being our best self, when we are not doing so. We must stay connected to God, so that he can always continually guide us to be a better self tomorrow, than the one we were yesterday, but in his terms, not in our own terms alone. Some people ignore God, and try to be their best self, as a sports person, a business person, or something else, but this is being our best self in our own mind, and terms, when we need to up the ante, and be our best self for God, not just for our own selves.
@Shiva49 (27029)
• Singapore
27 Mar
We tend to get carried away that we know best and others are push-overs and even ignoramus However, on a closer scrutiny we realize they too have wisdom that we can benefit from. The day we stop learning, lose our spirit of inquiry, is the day we cease to grow. I learn more from ordinary folks like those not having anything to fall back upon or happy with what they earn and share their lives openly. That is better than hearing about making a killing from the stock markets. We need to take care of our physical body but it is a losing fight as age takes its toll. It is better to nourish our soul as it is eternal.
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@innertalks (22508)
• Australia
27 Mar
That's well said, siva. We can become boastful and proud, thinking that we know it all, and the term "master," which is so loosely used these days, from master gardener, to master at his craft, gives most so-called masters a large swelled head. Yes, it is our soul wisdom that we must build on so we can take something learnt into the next world, where it will be useful, and a master at tennis skills might still be sort of useful, but more boosts the body/mind, than the soul. Some guy once wrote a series of books called, Zen and the art of motorbike riding (or Maintenance, I think), the Zen of tennis, the Zen of archery, etc, which did try to match outer learning with inner knowing too.
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@Shiva49 (27029)
• Singapore
28 Mar
@innertalks Thanks Steve. When the soul is enriched from our experiences here, we pass on seamlessly and not with apprehension and a feeling of loss from having to leave every material possessions behind. Then we have ingrained in us the spirit of enquiry and a heart filled with love and empathy. Pursuit of mindless material wealth will end up with an empty journey devoid of wisdom and love. We need to fill up our plate with what we need for a balanced life. To quote Gandhi 'The world has enough for everyone's need, but not enough for everyone's greed.'
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@Shiva49 (27029)
• Singapore
29 Mar
@innertalks It is a wonder that good people abound even now as the really bad hold sway in terms of power and wealth. Some politicians and religious fanatics inject venom on the masses to fool them. However, the innate goodness remains impenetrable to such vicious assaults. The good keeps pegging away with a hope and trust the tide will turn eventually. Otherwise, when the last embers of our planet is still alive, and without us, our epitaph could well be "what an ungrateful species - good riddance".
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