Am I the engineer of my own crap?

Consider a child born in proverty, sick, or with some kind of birth defect. Did this child engineer his/her own crap? Certainly not. This shows that other people/things can have an impact on the crap in our lives. We do not create our realities by our beliefs. That is 100$ incorrect. That belief is actually the problem, it is ACTION physical action that creates problems or benefits in our lives, not just a simple 'mind belief', because Reality changes according to action. To attempt to avoid action in changing and creating our realities is actually an engineer of your our crap. The world does not follow our beliefs, our beliefs should follow the world. Telling a child that his/her imaginary friend is real is like telling him what he believes is real. There certainly is no imaginary friend and this will cause the belief in something that will cause no benefit in manifesting in his/her physical reality.

All you said is true. Universal Law of Attraction is reality. We DO create all that happen. "Be careful what you pray for, you might just get it".... It is 100% correct.

We can affect our destiny, I think, bad choices lead to problems, but believing is not enough toi change reality, sometimes things happen that are beyond our control, I don´t think that our minds are that "powerful" or in an "Universal Law of attraction". The world is unfair. Bad things happen. We must learn with that and do our best. But I respect your beliefs, I disagree, but respect.

for me yes we can control our lives but that would only be the outside factors and there is outside factors that we have to consider when making decision.. thus having your own reality isnt just your engineering i supposed.