I asked for groceries.
By marguicha
@marguicha (226033)
Chile
April 10, 2025 3:28pm CST
My eldest grandson is coming tomorrow.
As I was writing the list of groceries I messaged him to ask him if he was coming tomorrow as he had announced.
And then, when everything was almost done, he said that he would come to stay with his GF.
I could not say no to the coming of this unknown young lady. He did not ask me, he told me.
But this is the last time that he will come here.
This is an assault.
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9 responses
@GardenGerty (163096)
• United States
11 Apr
Is she coming to stay at YOUR place or is he coming to the area to stay at HER place? I guess you will get to meet her this way.
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@marguicha (226033)
• Chile
11 Apr
She is supposed to come to my house and sleep in one of my rooms with him. And I´m sure that I will have to lend her towels and maybe even tooth paste.
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@marguicha (226033)
• Chile
11 Apr
Of course he should. I am not inviting too many friends now because I´m not capable of doing what is needed. On Alejandra´s last birthday, Dixie and I invited her to a trstaurant to celebrate. We could not have cooked at home. And the year before I did not know that and Invited Alejandra to my house. We were 5 people but both Dixie and I ended up vey tired.
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@RasmaSandra (83944)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
10 Apr
I hope the girlfriend will be a nice young lady and yes, he should have asked you first,
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@marguicha (226033)
• Chile
11 Apr
I hope that she is nice but that is not the point. I don´t run a hostal or a restaurant. Many days I can harfly get up to make a sandwich for myself.
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@marguicha (226033)
• Chile
11 Apr
I do not understand the generation of my grandchildren. Both of my hard working girls were always hiding normal facts of life from them so that they would "suffer". I remember that once, when my eldest granddaughter was about 14 she treated her mother in front of me in such a way that I told her that she should be glad that she was not my daughter or else I´d blow her teeth away from ther mouth. Then it seemsed that only she had rights but not a single duty. With my other grandchildren it is about the same.
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@JudyEv (350907)
• Rockingham, Australia
11 Apr
@marguicha It sometimes seems the wheel goes full circle. We were brought up with much more strict discipline then the wheel turned and the next generation get to do what they like.
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@MarieCoyle (42773)
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11 Apr
With you being ill, do you really want him to visit right now? Maybe you can just ask him not to come, and to visit another time in the future. You just don't need the stress.
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@marguicha (226033)
• Chile
11 Apr
@MarieCoyle I´ll just do what I can do. If he wants more, there´s the kitchen. He can do it.
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@marguicha (226033)
• Chile
11 Apr
I´ll have to let him know that I´m not capable of cooking for them. Many times I can´t even do that for me. That´s one of the reasons why I love omelettes so much.
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@MarieCoyle (42773)
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11 Apr
@marguicha
Can't you just ask him not to come? Tell him you cannot cook or do the kitchen clean up anymore, and he needs to wait and come alone. After all, he needs to respect your needs right now, your health is the most important thing. I'm just concerned about you, dear.
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@DaddyEvil (145780)
• United States
11 Apr
I'm sorry. He should have asked if it was okay to bring his girlfriend with him.
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@marguicha (226033)
• Chile
11 Apr
He told me that she was coming after I had accepted his visit.
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@marguicha (226033)
• Chile
11 Apr
@DaddyEvil I´ll do what I can do. But I won´t slave over him.
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@DaddyEvil (145780)
• United States
11 Apr
@marguicha Yeah, that's not right. He should have mentioned her before giving you time to say his visit was okay.
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