My boyfriend is tired of my girlfriend/lover.. Should I dump her?

What is your boyfriend ... NUTS!!!! He has what every guy dreams of, a girlfriend who is willing to share him "physically" with another woman and all you want in return is to be able to have a "physical" relationship with another woman. Wow! Not to get off topic here ... but you don't by any chance have a sister do you?

You are lucky to find a friend who is committed to u, dont give second thoughts and learn to live a relationship for him just as he wants it to be you and only you.

Well maybe your boyfriend enjoyed the excitement of you having another lover (especially another girl) but is starting to feel really unloved/alone/bored by this. Maybe he doesn't see a real future with someone who also has another girlfriend, I can see his point. This is a matter of choosing between your best friend and a boyfriend, very tough if you ask me. Go with your heart, I wish you the best.

i really hope you made this up to get responses, first of all in any religion this is not right.. you have a bf that you love and openly cheat on him? You dont know the word love, or class

If you really love and treasure you boyfriend, you will break it off with your 'occassional' lover. Do you think that if you explained the situation to her, she would understand? Willing, even, to just be your friend past it all? I mean, if you're really serious about your boyfriend, and he's had enough of it, you realise that you WILL lose him if you do not break it off with her...

Yes, you should dump her.This is a very complicated situation but there is a simple solution

I don't think it's fair to be in multiple relationships if you are going to dump someone because the other is jealous, i think jealousy is something that you need to work through and you really need to consider if you are treating your girlfriend fairly.

If you plan to make the relationship with the boyfriend go any further then you will have to break the physical relationship with the lesbian and let her know you can only be a friend. If she can't accept this than you don't have a true friend in her.

I just want to know how can you be faithful when you are sleeping with someone eles

Wow ! You are cool ... i think you should discuss with them ...

You can't have children if you want any with a girl and you can't have it both ways so you are damned if you do and damned if you don't

Well, there come a time when you must choose, and the fact that he prefer you over a 3-some shows that he is truly seriously in love with you. If your best friend really likes youll, shell understand. I do wish you the best of luck Have a nice day!

Well you have to decide, who do you love more. You can't expect your boyfriend to accept it, that is unreasonable, he was tolerant for a long time and now he has had enough. If you truly love him, then you should break off the physical relationship with your best friend. Be careful though, you could be tempted by your girlfriend, so be sure you are ready to commit either way, and stay committed. As far as the three way, I have that fantasy also, but I also fear that it could be weird and make thing awkward down the road. So I can't say it's something I would follow through with if given the chance. So his friends may think he is crazy, but it just shows how important your relationship is to him. Jim

I suggest that you have to make a day just for yourself and ponder. Decide whether you like a man or a woman. There is nothing wrong if you choose a woman since it is your preference anyway as long as you dont cheat. Having both at same time is a form of cheating if the other party does not agree. It is also a form of disrespect for your partners and for your ownself. Again, have time to think about it and clearly decide what you like.

Ask yourself,who u love more,who do u miss the most when he/she is not around.Because if u don't know what u want,then noone can help u.Good Luck.

Personally I would her up but I can't really say as I have never been in a situation like that don't get me wrong I am not judging you I never would as I am a believer everybody has their own Life You need to think about who you need and love more

yes u should

He is probably not going along with it anymore cuz you are prolly showing her more attention than him and im sure that frustrates him. If you say you love him then I guess you have to make a choice.

Presumably your boyfriend knew what the situation was with your girlfriend when you got together, and if it wasn't a deal-breaker for him at that time it's unreasonable for him to expect to change the rules now. BUT the fact that he refuses to do a threesome with your friend suggests that the reason he's changed his mind is that his feelings for you are stronger now than they were then, and he can no longer handle being in a non-monogamous relationship. What you need to do is decide whether your feelings for him have deepened in the same way. If you really love him and don't want to lose him, then yes, you will have to say goodbye to your girlfriend. (Just being friends with her isn't an option, he will still believe you are sleeping together whether you are or not -- that's how jealousy works.) But if you still feel that a monogamous relationship will be too restrictive for you, you should say goodbye to him and find someone else who is willing to accept your girlfriend (and maybe have threesomes!)

Look Dear as society will not accept this view of urs, and it will also be better to leave this girlfriend as ur true lover is you boy friend.