My sister is jealous of me!

New Zealand
December 2, 2006 10:56pm CST
My sister is so jealous of me that she always seems to think that i take her glory away from her. I have four children and she has nothing but has been trying for years to get pregnant. She often trys to be a mother to them rather than just an auntie, as she feels that i owe it to her to give her a chance of preparing herself for motherhood. She often degrades me on how i have brought my children up, my partner doesn't get along with her as he has told her to stay out of our relationship, in which i have supported him in his decision for saying that. It just seems that no matter what i do she always seems to have a problem with it, she always has to be better than me, she has travelled overseas in which i have never been on a plane, she has been bungy jumping, sightseeing and everything else. If anything i should be the one to be jealous of her as i can not do those sort of things as my life revolves around my own family. My mum has noticed her jealousy and has mentioned it to her but she always seems to shrug it off like it means nothing to her, and then the next thing you know she is rambling her mouth off again, about herself, and how much she has done or achieved, maybe just to get attention. Who knows, but your feedback is much appreciated.
2 responses
@jugernaut (262)
• India
3 Dec 06
you need to talk to your sister. just tell her how you feel when she behave like that.you need not to be jealous of her, she is behaving to you like that bcause she doesnt has any child, but you have. if she wont stop her behaviour then you have stop talking to her. your relation with your partner is more important than with your sister. show her where she stands in your life, dont give much importance to her.
@sammy1128 (241)
• China
3 Dec 06
it is really hard to get along with such a sister.since she want to get attention,just make her satisfied.