was there ever a communication gap between you and your father?

yes because most of the time i didn't listen w/my father. but i love him

Yes, there was but we started sitting together despite the difference and talked and discussed opinions. I controlled my temper so did he. He stopped ending his conversations at "you don't listen to me" and I stopped ending my conversations at "you're getting old and your views are old". He talked experience and I shared new ideas. We are a team now!

yes of course~ we do not a same gernaration~

There have been a number of occasions and that lead to a number of disagressment and worsen the home environment... but the things are okay now.... I have made my dad upto date and there has been a minimal communication pag between us