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@deeps123 (150)
December 4, 2006 1:40am CST
what age u think that a girl should get married and what age should a guy get married. (I think that a girl should get marry at the age of 23 - 24). my boyfriend is 21 yrs old and I am 23 and gng to be 24 in december but he says that he is too young that he cant marry with me now and we have been around for last 3 years now my family is saying me that its been 3 yrs so now u can go for marry but my bf is not ready also he says that i have two sisters both are cousins but both of them are younger to her so because of them he could not able to marry with me but my mother is notc well as well i dont understand what can i do abt it how should i say to my bf to get engaged so that nobody can say me something whether its outside or in my family please help me ?
2 responses
unisis
@unisis (1673)
• Indonesia
5 Dec 06
i think the girl should be married at the age twenty years and the boys at twenty five years,considered that when the child is being teenager the parent is not too old,and can give them feed,school fee.
deeps123
@deeps123 (150)
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5 Dec 06
GUD ONE THANKS FOR U R RESPONSE
Marie2473
@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
4 Dec 06
i do not think that it lies in the age. If he says that he is not ready then he probably isn´t and shuldn´t be "forced" into it. Give him some more time, and if he still doesn´t come around then maybe he is not right for you.