married couples

I dont think the word argue is a good word. maybe talk it out. shouting or what ever has never really solved anything. I believe if you love someone you just dont walk out. love is something a person has to want and work on. not someting that is given on a silver platter..

someone shud compromise..

It is best for married couples to 'talk' out issues, not even argue over them. Walking out is the last option. It gives a bad signal to one's wife. Such actions have bad effects in the future. For talking over an issue, your wife should have patience and respect for what you say. She should not be from a narrow minded background. I have had the same problem. Whenever there was an important issue to discuss, she used to walk away from me!! As a result, I rarely discuss anything with her. We dont talk over any issues. If at all, we argue, and the argument ends with one of us walking out on the other. I am being candid and frank. I hope it is seen in a mature way. And I dont need advice about this because things have gone beyond that.

I think that it's better to work out the issue, otherwise anger or frustration will just build up and eventually someone will blow up as a result.

There is a fine line between arguing and discussing. Yes, I do think people (married, friends, coworkers, anyone)should discuss issues, but each side has to agree to disagree. If either or both sides are too hot and worked up at the time, they need to step away with the understanding that the issue will be discussed further when both sides can communicate effectively. Even at that point if the situation becomes heated...they need to walk away again for a designated period of time then try it again. If feelings about the issue do not get aired out and resolved in a win-win situation, the "issue" will never go away for one of the two.

This is a good question! I don't think that anyone should walk away unless someone needs to cool down until they can talk about it like a mature adult. I believe that you should never go to bed angry. If problems arise, you should talk them through. And remember, if a married couple never has their arguments, something isn't right. It is healthy and normal to argue, just talk it out and be mature about it. Doing so will make the relationship stonger!

clear the air. it's ok to argue, it's part of being a person. why would a man just walk away, why shouldn't he be heard too. i don't condone violence, but argue away.

Definately depending on hte argument, it should be discussed first. If its something stupid like he didn't do the dishes, then it should definately be talked over. But if he cheated or something equally as bad...then it is up to the couple. I know if my husband cheated, he'd be OUT THE DOOR! immediately!

In my opinion i htink they should stay and talk it out unless they get violent that is, me and my hubby argue but we never actually fight, it's just words but we always feel better afterwards. So i think they should stay and deal with it and not let the problem fester...My dad and mom walk out on each other and nothing pisses either off more then that when the other walks out when in a arguement. and nothing gets resolved it festers and it gets even worse for them... So don't walk away.

Definitely argue it out, talk it out, yell it out, cry it out, whatever works for you and your spouse. Don't just walk away, because nothing will ever get better. The communication just goes downhill, if you hold in your feelings.

I think when you are arguing nothing gets solved. So sometimes it is better to walk away for things to cool down. Later than you can calmly get your point across.

They should sort their issues out with each other. I think people think they can get married and if it don't work just divorce each other, this is very wrong and i think it shouldn't be allowed to divorce as easy as it is. And i think that if your partner is court cheating and you divorce him they should pay more at settlement!!!!!

A good spat every now and again is good for a marriage. You get the frustrations out and the time you spend making up is great!

It isfar better for two people to compromise than argue. not to say all arguements are bad, but they should end the day they start and two Loving people have to work to find a compromise so resentment doesnt build up.

any issues should be discussed within and get it sorted..

there shd be argument but a healthy one with a conclusion

there shd be argument but a healthy one with a conclusion

none of them is my answer.. talk seriously, maybe..

It comes down to what the issues are at the end of the day. However first port of call should always be to talk, and you speak before those issues reach a certain level it’s a lot easier on both sides to cure, no man or woman should ever just walk away. Issues are like creases in clothes; they need to be ironed out.

in a perfect world we would talk it out. but realistically, sometimes you have to agree to disagree. i think there are times when we need to put it on the back burner in order to not say things we don't mean & come back to it later.