I have lived with my boyfriend for 2 years- should he have popped the question?
By martie4prez
@martie4prez (143)
United States
December 4, 2006 9:32am CST
I have lived with my boyfriend for 2 years- should he have popped the question? I do all the wifely chores and I call him my husband because based on "common law" he is but how long is too long to just be boyfriend and girlfriend? "why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free"
3 responses
@smith_velocity (1488)
• India
4 Dec 06
well maybe he should have, but do not pressure him, maybe he is just not ready, and if u love him, u should understand, i mean, thats what guys r afraid of most, their gf pressuring them into marriage, maybe u should wait, he will come around!!!
@martie4prez (143)
• United States
4 Dec 06
Why are men so scared of marrige? that sounds like a good discussion in itself!!
@martie4prez (143)
• United States
4 Dec 06
I know he isnt scared of commitment because for a while we were trying to have a baby but he knows very well that I want to get married!
@euniceeleanor (5966)
• Singapore
8 Dec 06
hmm..maybe you should ask him directly (if there's good communication between both of you) about what lies ahead. if not, then probably it's good that you just drop a little hint here and there. Good Luck!
