who's responsable?
By MsBond
@MsBond (45)
Canada
December 4, 2006 11:54am CST
If a woman gets pregnant and doesn't want it but the man does what happens? It's not like the man has to carry the baby for 9 months then push a watermelon out a hole the size of a plum? It's a lot easier to want something when your not doing any of the work. What are the answers you've got?
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@mansha (6298)
• India
4 Dec 06
Youshould bring the baby in to this world only if you are sure about it.A mother has to nurture her child more than a father.You should ask yourself why or why you should not have this child.Keeping morality issues aside-ask yourself how much your life will change after the baby,are you ready for this commitment.Now you are pregnant,what will you feel like not having this baby.will you be able to handle your life the same way-after having this baby.Baby needs love and should be given birth if you are prepared for it.If father is your life partener too,then aborting may creatre some issues between you two too,how are you going to resolve that.ABortion also will put yopu in a state of depression like giving birth does,you will need support system to come out of it-do you have one for both the cases.Do not have baby because others are telling you to,have it only if you want to.do not abort it because friends here tell you-abort it if you want to.Lastly its a life inside you-you are responsible for it,from day one till it grows up and becomes independent-are you ready for this commitment.Its a bigger commitment then marriage,so think a lot and think deeply.
