what makes you a handsome guy and beautiful lady?

since most handsome man said im perfect i consider myself beautiful. i stopped using make up, i stopped to want to lose my weight, i stopped to change anything about myself. unfortunately yesterday he said i should paint my hair brown (i have blond) and i felt unattractive. but then i thought if he doesnt like something in me, let him find girl with brown hair, and just leave me alone. i think that is good just believe in urself!!!